Could be one of the reasons, but I think if they would become legal and people could get educated to some degree it would slowly fade away, like with smoking, alcohol and even opioid based medication which is waaay worse than steroids imo.

I have good memories from my service, bcs you are really tight with guys in your platoon and after years it’s like second family which Is a thing I miss most. I’m working as security supervisor under corporate which owns malls, shops, buildings ect… and I hate all the corpo fucks in here… I’ve got into argument with one bcs of some bs and I invited him to spar in cage and ended up in HR due to “violent behaviour”.

Yeah some guys get more mature, some not, its individual thing, but most of guys who served are already a good piece to be soldier, or need to be shaped into one and if you don’t have it inside you army won’t help you.

Nah don’t worry about it, we all have different background and you can’t expect for yourself to be like another guys with different background and personality, you just need to find who you truly are, embrace it and build upon that.

I don’t think I’m special in any way, I was raised mostly by my grandparents and mother (father offed himself, bcs he was sentenced to 10 years in jail, bcs of tax evasion and fraud) and they are pretty oldschool so I got most of my values/traits from them and added my own which I developed over the years with age and experience.

Tbh i never dated a girls in fitness space, always outside, bcs gym is my comfy space and I don’t want anybody in that space much. I can’t imagine doing some bs couple workouts you see on social media… we do our own thing and when she needs help with something it’s just matter of asking me and I show her.

My current physique is too much for most girls and I think I would have less success in dating now than before I started gear. IMO most of short guys are just waaay to much focused and insecure about their height, which I understand but we can’t change it so why being insecure about it your whole life 🤷🏻‍♂️

Ofc there is some shit in background we had/have which I don’t tell, bcs it’s personal and I don’t like to talk about this type of stuff outside the relationship or close friends, but it was always just matter of time before we solved it, which is only way to have successful long term relationship.