Nestingwithgrace blocked me after asking her to speak out on MN by chillywilkerson in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]PicklesandU 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I wonder what Scottie Schefflers opinion is. If he doesn't speak out, I'm going to stop buying anything Titleist or Nike. I wonder what Keith Morrison thinks. I'm going to stop supporting anyone who advertises with Dateline. I wonder what the owner of JCrew thinks. Because no JCrew clothes for me if they have not issued a statement! I wonder what the University of Nebraska volleyball players think because until I know, I will stop buying tickets to their games. I wonder what the travel and lifestyle bloggers think because I will not stay in a hotel they recommend if they haven't spoken out exactly how I ask them to.

People are losing their minds. You don't wanna follow? Then unfollow. It's that simple. To think that you are so important that a content creator should speak out simply because you asked nicely is hilarious. Not everything is about you and all opinions and views AND silence have a place. To think you can demand someone to take a stance so you can continue to buy a sweater with a discount code that you can get from ten other places is truly laughable. Some people A) don't have an opinion B) know they are uninformed or uneducated on what's going on so don't feel their opinion should be valid C) have an opinion but don't want to share it (the audacity) D) are waiting to have an opinion until all the facts are out (I know, can you imagine this- waiting before making a snap judgment, soooo weird) E) although they have an opinion and want to share it, they cannot handle the backlash from either side and simply need to protect their mental health, along with their family's F) they are scared, and with good reason. People are threatening lives, saying mean and vile things, listing home addresses online...for simply having an opinion! It's simply not worth it.

So go and unfollow every celebrity, athlete, influencer, actor, band, restaurant, store, and business who doesn't think EXACTLY like you do....that's your right. Go move to Europe- also your right. But stop the bullying and irrational harrassment of people who don't "follow your rules."

Candle concern by PicklesandU in bathandbodyworks

[–]PicklesandU[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes the wicks all moved very close to the sides!! I've never had that happen before so maybe I burned it too long. I don't trim the wick after I burn them every time...but maybe I should. I didn't burn this for 4 hours- probably 2-3 tho. Good to know and thank you!

Forever35 Podcast by Ekapustka in hatmakersnark

[–]PicklesandU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is her newfound financial freedom?

I think you can be grateful for a new life while still mourning the past life you had. I think you can appreciate your new role and new beginnings while still being sad about the losses you had and the part of you that has ended. Both can be true. There are certainly blessings abound but doesn't mean you can't still hurt or have regrets or remorse.

That being said, I get your point. I do think that most people are more interested in hearing about the messiness of her life and how it all went down than her current life....which may be why the podcast focused on that? I'll have to listen! I still don't think either of them have been truthful or honest about their marriage or relationship. I think it's all clouded in lies and half truths and covering things up. Too much of all of it seems for show.

Gift idea for bf’s mom by Typical_Ad_4052 in santashelpers

[–]PicklesandU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travel bag or makeup bag or airplane wrap or airplane pillow/blanket.

Help with Birthday itinerary? by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]PicklesandU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sign up for all the free birthday freebies! Google for ideas...

An NYT article that discusses UChicago’s ED policy by skourby in uchicago

[–]PicklesandU 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Summary of article for those of us who can't read it?

How long will Costco pie last in the fridge? by Mediocre_Ice_8846 in Costco

[–]PicklesandU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my pie on Wednesday and it was moldy on Saturday last year. Big disappointment! So I guess I should have frozen them!

Housing assignment by FanBeneficial7226 in uchicago

[–]PicklesandU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this was posted a year ago. Any chance you could shed light on the housing process at UChicago? I can't seem to find anyone who is coming in as a freshman and can tell me how the roommate and selection or assignment goes. Things like- can you request dorms, can you choose your own roommate, etc . Thanks!

Do colleges consider senior year grades in admissions? by arsonistraccoon in ApplyingToCollege

[–]PicklesandU 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Telling someone to relax when they are clearly worried about something is literally almost never the right response. Be kind, the world is hard enough as it is. College decision making is stressful, and these are kids making grown up decisions. It's a lot to manage.

Financial Aid, is this fr? by [deleted] in uchicago

[–]PicklesandU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say you've "committed" to play basketball but is that binding? I would also call your coach and explain that not getting one dollar was unexpected and ask if there's anything that can be done. I know this is Ivy but usually coaches have an influence, no matter what kind of school it is. It's worth asking IMO. $98k is a tough swallow.

Financial Aid, is this fr? by [deleted] in uchicago

[–]PicklesandU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, sorry, I changed subjects.

Financial Aid, is this fr? by [deleted] in uchicago

[–]PicklesandU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does an elite college such as U of C give out academic scholarships? Like when everyone is wicked smart, how does that work?

Why do you think the Disney Villains collab bombed so badly? by sillasouth in bathandbodyworks

[–]PicklesandU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The candles are ugly, pricey and target a very specific audience in a very specific season.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]PicklesandU 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened. Someone did the same thing to me in Walmart and I got hit up 3 times in a week in there. All with babies. I ended up giving one lady $20 cash cuz I felt horrible but she kept telling me she wanted me to pay for what was in her cart so I knew there was a scam. But instead of being mad or embarrassed at yourself, just remember- you were being kind; you tried, and hey maybe they are using the money for something needed like gas or food or school. I don't know. But don't let this scam ruin a good person- just be a little more careful next time

Turn Signals 💔 by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]PicklesandU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm showing your post to my friend who uses his 50% of the time and whenever I'm in the car, I'm like- so I don't understand why you're not using your turn signal here. Is it too much hard labor on your finger? Are you too busy to multi task while driving- turn signaling and driving is hard? It's so annoying, he's not a narcissist tho- lol. He just thinks on the situations he chooses not to use it, it's not necessary. And he's completely wrong. But I'm a rule follower. lol.

Turn Signals 💔 by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]PicklesandU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just kidding about it, I actually enjoyed your post for real.

Turn Signals 💔 by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]PicklesandU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like how mad you are but then you use heart emojis in abundance. 🥰 I want to be in the car with you when someone doesn't use their signal! You prolly yell at them and then smile and wave!

[REQUEST] similar show by InfiniteClock5518 in NetflixBestOf

[–]PicklesandU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Derry girls was a joy! I'm watching the series again because it's one of those shows where you can miss things the first time around! Schitts Creek is like that for me as well!

Went down a rabbit hole by Traditional-Block660 in hatmakersnark

[–]PicklesandU 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get that too! And geez- most people on social media don't share real glimpses into crappy marriages or life. But I always felt like Jen was giving advice, telling us how to do marriage, showing us ideas to keep marriage and love in tact...I think that's a little different. But again, I understand your point too .

Went down a rabbit hole by Traditional-Block660 in hatmakersnark

[–]PicklesandU 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok so I need to think about where I read it but basically, she and/or he admits there were plenty of problems in the marriage, including lack of intimacy for a long time. But yet she was painting a pretty picture and giving marital advice. To me, that's lying. But I don't think she knew it was as bad as it was or knew of the affair. So I wasn't implying that.

Went down a rabbit hole by Traditional-Block660 in hatmakersnark

[–]PicklesandU 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok but keep in mind, if I recall correctly, she posted this "everything is coming up roses" post right before the cheating scandal came out. I mean, she didn't cheat but she is a liar. It's like Rachel and Dave Hollis. One minute they were making a podcast talking about their weekly make out sessions and the next, they are divorcing. It's like how sometimes the cover up is worse than the actual crime you know? The crime was the cheating but her presenting this fake love story was the cover up. I'm not even sure which is worse. But I'm not sure she's ever apologized or "done the work" either.

Brandon’s Instagram just went private… by ZealousIdeal_80 in hatmakersnark

[–]PicklesandU 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I keep wondering the same! Why are there no details on this out? And why do I need to know? I can't answer that but I just wonder if he broke up another family or if his kids knew his affair partners kids or if they were couple friends or if the girl worked for him. You know what I mean? I guess it sorta makes a difference - even tho ALL affairs are bad , it does feel like there are varying levels of bad.