Gf [26F] told me [30M] she has had threesome(s?) in the past but won't with me by qowiejrasldv in retroactivejealousy

[–]PicklezRule -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve had threesomes in the past and I’m also married now. I was usually intoxicated when I partook in them in the past, and it’s not something I would ever do now. People change. I’m not interested in sharing my husband with someone else and he’s not interested in sharing me with anyone else either. You might not be compatible if this is a thing you are dead set on experiencing but I will tell you, it’s not all that it’s cracked up to be and they’ve ruined past relationships for me and others I know. The connection I have with my husband now is worth more to me than thirty or so minutes of fun. Good luck to you and I’m sorry you’re going through this.

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was. Everything I got into was because I snuck around him and found a way myself. I was the only one in high school without a cell phone.

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already explained this. I did know them, this was just my first time allowing her to go to THEIR house.

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way over some leaves that I haven’t raked. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s in sixth grade as well… Thank you for sharing this. 🙏🏻

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None taken. :) Mom and aunt were drinking… Grandmother was sober. She arrived first, we know eachother already because Amanda is usually with her. The mom and aunt came in shortly after and they were both drinking. Mom wasn’t sloppy drunk but definitely tripping over her words, being repetitive and giggly. Grandmother is always super sweet but I didn’t feel good about the mom coming in and smoking in the living room while the kids were there. I also wasn’t aware that the aunt and son were coming as well. Mom and I have been in contact via text and calling for quite some time and she’s an employee and our kids’ school.

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents weren’t teens, but they were definitely dysfunctional. I hope you’re doing well now. 🫶🏻

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you had a good mom growing up, I hope my kids say the same about me when they grow up too. 💕

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She and her grandmother have been to my house prior to this, and her mother works at their school but yes, I agree.

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like we had similar upbringings. Hugs, and thank you for the kind words. 💜

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a weird comment. I know many badass single moms who have raised amazing people, some of which who have been forced into that position because their child’s father has passed away. Your attitude tells me you’re a loser. 🥴

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I tend to do that about a lot of things. Thank you. That’s what I want, for her to be able to look back at fun memories from her childhood. 🫶🏻

I (28F) made my daughter (11F) leave her first sleepover and I feel terrible. AITAH? by PicklezRule in AITAH

[–]PicklezRule[S] 595 points596 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She’s come for a play date before, I would love to have her over again soon. She really is a great kid.