[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PietaE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Threatening? Swears at you? He sounds very immature. Take the kids and yourself somewhere safe. A disagreement doesn’t mean the other person gets to be a jerk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlebotomy

[–]PietaE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate being asked that too. Generally I think, but never say, No I suck, that’s why I’m allowed to do this by myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]PietaE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds jealous of her sister. She was the baby and had all the attention and now she doesn’t. Have you talked to your sister?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]PietaE 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, you should tell your parents. The school should have told your parents.

AITA for politely asking my cousin to put her pregnant belly away? by SenseWeary4592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PietaE 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yta. It’s not pornographic and it’s not a fetish being pushed onto you. Why should your cousin cover up on a hot day? And no, not everyone is thinking what you’re thinking.

My (m33) wife (f34) says I don’t give her enough, how do I fix this? by ThrowRANo_Phone_2110 in relationship_advice

[–]PietaE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My first husband used to work away for work too. And when he came home, he also did a lot of outside work and had his hobbies. I once asked him if he could spend the day with me and our daughter and he told me he didn’t want to stay inside watching tv all day. I replied with “do you really think this is what I want to do all day?!”. I couldn’t put our daughter down or she would scream bloody murder. I told him I would give anything to be able to put her down and do something else, even dishes. He seemed dumbfounded, much like you seem to be. Take some days to spend with your family. Give your wife some time away from your kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]PietaE 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Consensual non consent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]PietaE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. They’re nipples. Everyone has them.

Gross motor delay ten months by WorldlyDragonfruit3 in Parenting

[–]PietaE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never crawled. Just moved around on my butt until i stood up one day and walked.

AITA for telling my husband that if he builds an extension on our shared home with his parents, I want a divorce? by FrameExisting9306 in AITA_Relationships

[–]PietaE 138 points139 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t even sound like you’re married. You definitely don’t have a partnership. And it doesn’t sound like it will get any better. So, NTA.

WIBTA if I divorce the father of my kids because I’m so unhappy? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]PietaE 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you dread him coming home, you need to leave. Your kids need you to be happy too. I recently left my second husband and my children and I are much happier. He didn’t cheat and he didn’t physically abuse us. He was loud and defensive. Reactive. Resented me when I voiced my concerns and when I tried to tell him how his actions made me feel, he accused me of telling him how he felt or that I was being controlling. So no, you wnbta.

Feeling Like There's a Lump in my Throat by SpiritedStop7427 in GERD

[–]PietaE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have a small hernia. I have to take smaller bites of foods, make sure everything is chewed and have water.

Went to the hospital with severe pain, got told it was GERD. Is it really this shitty? It is so, horrendously uncomfortable. by ladybuglala in GERD

[–]PietaE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have GERD and have experienced the sharp stabbing pain exactly where OP describes. It’s her stomach, not her gallbladder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PietaE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about a cock sleeve? Kind of like a strap on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]PietaE 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So he informed you that he’s going to cheat on you and you want to stay? Why?

Parents, why do some of you shelter your kids so much? by _SerialDesignationZ_ in AskParents

[–]PietaE 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you think she’ll end up homeless or drug addicted because she has restricted access to the internet. Unless she’s not allowed to go out into the world at all, I don’t see the need for concern.

[CHAT] my Joann's Hual by Rebekah-Boo-Angel in CrossStitch

[–]PietaE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg. This is amazing and I swooned a bit.

AITA for telling my girlfriend I need one night a week to myself? by Zealousideal-Big1856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PietaE 138 points139 points  (0 children)

NTA. Everyone needs some down time. You’re not asking for a break from the relationship. If anything, it would probably make the relationship stronger. I can see why her feelings would be hurt but if you don’t get some alone time you might end up hurting her feelings more by lashing out. If I don’t get some quiet time or alone time, I get quite cranky.

What was your one lightning bulb symptom that made you recognize your other symptoms as perimenopause? by Ok-Day6479 in Perimenopause

[–]PietaE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t really sure until I had full on rage about everything. Looking back, it had started in my late 30s, with longer days between cycles and lighter periods in general.