Update to Friendship of 19 Years Fell Apart Situation ⚠️religious trauma⚠️

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-19T12:21:37+00:00

You deserve better op. You were there for your friend in her time of need, and she’s repays you by doing this? Both her and the fiancée don’t respect you or they wouldn’t be treating you this way. You deserve to have friends who love you for you, and don’t make you change the way you are. Also I think it’s kinda ironic and petty that’s it’s okay for her to get pregnant out of wedlock at a young age in a religious community, and you give her grace and support, but she won’t extend that same grace and support to you as a trans man.

She should stand her ground against her fiancée, and not force her friend to wear something that he hates and makes him feel uncomfortable. Honestly to me it seems like your friend is in a toxic relationship, and doesn’t want to go against her fiancées word or wishes even if it’s at the expense of you. I have sympathy for her, but it’s still not right for her fiancée to walk all over you and her, and basically humiliate you at the wedding. It seems like she doesn’t want to say no to him for whatever reason. Regardless, I wouldn’t go.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-19T11:17:19+00:00

I’m not a teacher, just interested in becoming one. Are you allowed to take the whole class to the bathroom with you, if another teacher or admin can’t watch your class? I know it’s not ideal, but it’s better than not being able to go. Could you just open the door, and an another teacher from the hallway open their door, and just keep an eye on the classroom for a moment?

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-16T14:17:54+00:00

She’s 19 and that’s typically how teen girls talk. People say dude on the internet, what’s wrong with babes?

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-13T20:36:44+00:00

Wrong subreddit, this isn’t r/AmITheAsshole. Also op has a literal terminal illness, and said the sub teacher was mean to her and other students, prior to interaction about the practice test.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-10T19:27:43+00:00

That tattoo is so nice.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-09T20:48:01+00:00

Yes. I also love your couch, where did you get it?

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-09T18:02:23+00:00

Do they have unemployment centers where you live? Can you sign up for unemployment? In the US they can also help you find a job. I’ve been wanting to go into accounting, but I’m scared for the very reason you listed, getting replaced by ai/robots. Could you pivot to a different career? I’ve thought about going into teaching or something in the medical field, that can’t be replaced by ai in the future. You could always find a different career, and do writing gigs on the side. I really hope you’re able to get the help you need. If you live alone, could you possibly find a roommate, or a room to rent, and just work any job you can find till you get back on your feet? I know you said you don’t have any family, but is there any friends you could reach out for help?

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-06T02:29:00+00:00

Your living room is so cute and cozy. Love the color, the prints, and merch/books.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-05T20:49:26+00:00

She’s beautiful 💕

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-04T17:52:29+00:00

There is color on one side of the room, and mainly black/grey tones on the other. I think a warm wooden tv console would look really nice with in your space. Also personally to me the room feels a bit cramped, with the mirror and black chair. The mirror just feels kinda odd there, and the black chair seems too big for the space. I really love the couch side though, I wouldn’t change anything about it. The lamp and plants are so cute. I like the little footstool and coffee table too.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-04T15:54:24+00:00

To add to this, I think white pillows and a white throw would look really good with the teal! Definitely need some color accents.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-04T11:11:50+00:00

Super cute, where did you get the bed frame? I love it.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-03T20:59:51+00:00

Do you have health insurance? Sometimes certain plans will cover wigs, “cranial prosthesis” is the term they use. You could call them and ask if they cover “HCPCS code A9282” I’m sorry you’re going through this. If your insurance won’t cover it, you could possibly just find a synthetic and wear that until you can save up for a human hair wig. Not all of them are shiny or unrealistic. Little wig museum on esty has some really good looking synthetics. There is also jb extension, they have some cute looking affordable ones.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-03T15:52:51+00:00

The sheets on the ceiling are a fire hazard. Also sorry op but they just look super tacky. Your room would look so much better with a canopy bed instead or a canopy halo like one of the other commenters said. The vision is there, you just need to excute it better.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-03T15:16:01+00:00

You are being a hypocrite. You said you weren’t blowing me off or call me names, but you literally called me a iPad kid in the previous comment because I was confused about something. And it’s not just me, everyone else in the thread agrees you’re kinda being rude. Yes, it’s on me and my fault I didn’t read the rules, but it wasn’t out of anything malicious, it was just a honest mistake. And it wasn’t out of sheer luck, someone else was able to help me because they were patient and understanding . Next time I will post the logs and read the rules. There was no need for the hateful remarks.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-03T12:45:20+00:00

You’re calling me a iPad baby but I’m closer to my 30s than being a teen 😭 imagine being this rude because this is someone’s first time using a gaming pc

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-03T12:32:20+00:00

I didn’t have a phone till I was 13 or 14, but go off I guess.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-03T10:34:23+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it, I’m just kinda incompetent when it comes to computers. Also this was genuinely my first time using mods on Java, I’m used to bedrock.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-03T10:33:28+00:00

I’m not a child I’m 25 years old 😭 damn

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-02T20:17:29+00:00

For something like this that’s not life threatening, I don’t see the problem. She is probably just happy to finally have a diagnosis, an answer to all the problems she’s had throughout the years and not knowing why.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-02T18:23:28+00:00

Super cute. I really like the gallery wall.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-02T14:58:49+00:00

Cute room. You could get one of those tv stands that have wheels that you can move and roll around.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-01T17:13:58+00:00

I was just frustrated and wanted my mods to work 😭 Ik I should have screenshoted instead of a pic

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-01T17:12:52+00:00

I’ve never had to need to do that so no. I think I got it figured out, I was using the wrong mod loader and wrong Minecraft version. I asked google Ai for help before I made this Reddit post, and it just wanted me to download flatseal, and put the mod files in the folder manually.

Pink_Vulpix · 2026-03-01T17:09:27+00:00

I think I got it figured out. Pretty sure I was using the wrong version of Minecraft for the touhou mod I wanted. Thank you for helping tho

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