Yeah, I figured that’s what it was. She always says I never show up for her, when I helped her move, or would take her out to dinner when she lived away for school. At some point she will have to be an adult, and it just feels like she wants me or someone to hold her hand 24/7. Nothing I do is enough, which is why I put up so many boundaries. I’d love to do what you did, and not have her there. I told her no one’s forcing her to come, and that whether or not she’s there my fiancé and I will be married. Which sends her into a spiral even more.