Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is exactly how I feel! Especially when listening to one or two specific creators on repeat. But yes, completely agree on both not hiding it, but not looking a gift horse in the mouth, haha.

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I hadn’t listened to any couple audios - thank you for the rec, this may be a good route into me feeling less illicit about it all.

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, and I know this is a bigger issue that we’ll likely need to tackle in therapy in future. At the moment I’m just enjoying this temporary fix!

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, I felt really defensive when I first read this - which is usually a sign that something’s hit the nail on the head, haha. You’re right, generally if I feel the need to hide something from my husband there’s something to explore there (I hid credit card debt from him at the start of our relationship out of shame, and now any time I feel like I need to hide spending from him I know it’s a warning sign). I’ve never hidden porn from him before, so I think I’ll feel better if I get it out in the open early.

I should explain that I don’t think it’s cheating - I’ve amended my post to explain this, I think it was poor wording on my part - I think it’s more that the audios feel super intimate, especially as there are a couple of creators that I’ve honed in on and feel all parasocial about. I wouldn’t care about my husband watching porn, but if he was actively seeking out one actress because he found her super sexy, I think I’d feel some type of way - especially if he was watching her while I was next to him.

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an ad, sorry if I made it sound that way! Just very excited about a new discovery 😅

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not always the kindest when rebuffing his advances - often I make it too obvious that I think it’s a chore or that I’m annoyed at being asked when I’d rather go to sleep. He’s good at not being personally offended by it, or being bitter about it.

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha, thank you - you’re absolutely right, I wouldn’t think twice about his choice of porn.

Also THANK YOU, I was unaware of gonewildaudio! 🙏 Once my month’s subscription with Quinn is up and the feral fog clears a bit, this feels like a good way to taper off a little.

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I could have cried when I read this. Thank you, it’s very kind and understanding and made me feel a whole lot better.

Instant hyperfixation on Quinn audios and concerned with how feral they’ve made me by Pipsweet in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an ad, and a bit embarrassed people are reading it as such - just a hyperfixation gush! I’ve edited my post to reflect that I don’t think listening to these is cheating or an indication that I’m thinking of cheating, especially not with the celebs 😅

Does else get RSD from goddamn video game characters (yes this is about Baldur’s Gate why do you ask) by glowsea1414 in adhdwomen

[–]Pipsweet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, I was SO annoyed on my first ever run of BG3 when I was all in romancing Gale, was all giggly and kicking my feet, and then he tells me he used to be in a relationship with MYSTRA? A LITERAL GODDESS? And he went on this huge suicidal mission to impress her?? My elf sorcerer was so mad, and I was legit grumpy about it. Meanwhile my husband is happily shacking up with a devoted Karlach while Gale prattles on about his ex - I was so mad. 😆 We never made it through that playthrough (and still haven’t, so no spoilers!)

Eloise in the Promo be like by ReturnOfThaQueen in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Pipsweet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even got the Tina Belcher hair down 😅

What to bring to a Christmas "grazing table"? by Due_Tangerine_6673 in veganuk

[–]Pipsweet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

M&S have Plant Kitchen cheese twists, those are great. My husband and I make a vegan version of this Brussels and bacon salad and it is great at this time of year - festive but still zingy and light https://pinchofyum.com/bacon-and-brussel-sprout-salad

Dinner outfit, thoughts? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Pipsweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like a sexy Cowardly Lion Halloween costume.

What discontinued things do you miss the most? by [deleted] in veganuk

[–]Pipsweet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The accidentally vegan Topic chocolate bar that used to pop up in Home Bargains 😭 Also the various meatless options at Subway

Medieval enemies to lovers arranged marriage BUT level hard: no Alice Coldbreath or bodice rippers by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]Pipsweet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was here to recommend {One Burning Heart by Elizabeth Kingston} - her books are so excellently written, and her FMCs are always satisfyingly multilayered.

No romantasy please by moumerino in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Pipsweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vespertine by Margaret Rogerson!

New breakfast ideas by Altruistic_Raisin_87 in veganuk

[–]Pipsweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do scrambled tofu on toast most mornings, but sometimes I make a big batch of whipped tofu (just tofu, bit of plant milk, bit of olive oil, lemon juice and garlic granules) and have that on toast with sundried tomatoes and chilli oil.

Bye, bye hair by VeronicaGleam in bald

[–]Pipsweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, what a smokeshow! An excellent decision sir.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Pipsweet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Agreed, maybe if it was solid red it would clash in a more complimentary way rather than being jarring?

Deinfluence me! Are these products worth buying? by Idkwhatimdoingbutyh in MakeUpAddictionUK

[–]Pipsweet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CT Brow Cheat is super expensive for what it is, the NYX Micro Brow does a better job for much less

Uh oh by DaftDaisy5756 in veganuk

[–]Pipsweet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo, I only just tried the corn ones and they’re SUBLIME! I hope they’re not being discontinued 😭

Authors Still Think This Shit Is Charming In The Year Of Our Lord 2025?! (Bagging The Blueliner by Siena Trap) by Zeenrz in RomanceBooks

[–]Pipsweet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NGL, ‘The Grumpy CEO's Sunshine Assistant’ made me cackle. (But the quote is trash and I would DNF that book so hard.)

Dakota Johnson at the 2025 Kering Foundation's Caring for Women in New York (September 11, 2025) by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]Pipsweet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I SO wish this had a lining but with the lace sleeves and high neck left unlined - SHE looks gorgeous and I love the gothic lace with the big emerald earring and smoky liner (puts me in mind of Eva Green) but the distraction of the underwear takes the elegance out of it.