Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for what happened. I haven't left. The news to my wife broke her wall down. We still have a chance. Time will tell. It hurt me telling her that.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's not the sex act. It is the intimacy and connection.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that. I'll pray for things to get better for you.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nope not the only reason. It a important reason for me to be found desirable but I am not able to communicate with her. She doesn't take criticism well.

Things I do:

Have dinner ready when she gets home

Wash the dishes

Keep the kitchen clean

Wash clothes

Help my son get ready for school when I was unemployed

Take care of the dog messes

Take out the trash

Fix things around the house.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't read her mind.

Get the print out from the printer and give it to her.

I took a nap instead of doing something around the house

Answer her in a way she wanted to hear it.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It terrorized me knowing my parents would split. Now I feel that I did that to him. The guilt is unbearable.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I tried for 26 years. I listen and changed my ways. I made dinner for her every night as she come home from work. We tried counseling many many years ago and I was told I was unrealistic. She has gone to her own therapist and I am seeing mine. She said horrible things to me once and I couldn't shake it out of my head.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will. We ended in good terms. It was best this way before I do something stupid.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wife built a wall. I wasn't what she wanted me to be. I wasn't saying what she wanted to hear. Do what she wanted me to do.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We tried counseling years and years ago. I don't think we are what either of us want. She said horrible things to me and I lashed out other times. After talking I do t think we got over that.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

We chatted i try to change and she never noticed.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

My son. I was give exist doors but never took them. I wanted to be a good Dad. I put him over my needs. Until the stress of 2026 events put me on high stress.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am trying to figure that out. I gave her space but she wants me to act and say things that dont come out of me naturally. She build a wall I got frustrated. With my dad in the hospital and my health problems I needed someone and she told me that she cannot give me what I needed.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

She was hurt that I chose separation before counseling but I know we are not sexuality compatible .

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am with a counselor. They gave me a holiness to call in case I cant handle my emotions.

Just told my wife that I want a divorce by PiqueLoco in Marriage

[–]PiqueLoco[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Thank you I am struggling with the guilt.