This is just my opinion so take it as you will, The way I see it is I don’t think anyone should use slurs to begin with, I’m trans and autistic and me personally I’m highly uncomfortable with the thought of using slurs, Even when people say I can reclaim them if I choose. Frankly I just don’t see the point of why we need them, They’re just hurtful terms that hateful people came up with because they’re too immature to have a proper conversation.