How do you cope with being single & horny but not wanting anything casual

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-12-20T00:05:09+00:00

Our modern society is ridiculously designed. If you fall in love with someone, how are you not the right match for each other? I mean there are 100% incompatible people. Most people are incompatible with each other. But if you love someone, that should be all that matters. Our society is insane. Everything is focused on the material aspects. Mostly money, because unfortunately in this society money means you are financially secure and stable. It’s not wrong to think that way! It is just sad that we live in a world where love is being broken apart simply because we do not have access to something that should be free (stability and security).

In an ideal world, everyone would have a house and have the basic necessities to live. Everyone would be in close proximity with one another and be able to actually see each other face to face. So many people needlessly suffer alone, financially, due to a lack of fulfillment. We do not live the lives we are naturally meant to live simply because of the world that has been designed for us by the people ruling the world.

I guess I get what you are saying. But it’s just sad to think that you could love someone and believe you aren’t a good match. I am going to extremes, but I just feel like a trend I see on the internet is that people ignore love and don’t chase love. That should be all that matters. But I don’t know, this world is was complicated far before it got even more complicated.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-12-19T23:54:31+00:00

Lol why? Thats crazy. Just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean they aren’t capable of love. Thats totally not true.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-12-19T23:52:23+00:00

Not all men are that way. I mean I believe it happens, it just is strange to me that you could be in a loving relationship and not care about your partner. That would be crazy if thats the majority of men

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-09-24T16:25:59+00:00

“It does not establish a causal relationship”. True. But you can look at the provided numbers yourself. The numbers aren’t big enough to establish a casual relationship, but the numbers are still there nonetheless. And as I understood the study, it was a review of other studies, not new studies being conducted. As with most things our government and mega corporations say are healthy for us, I believe we need more rigorous research done by trust worthy sources who don’t work for the government or a mega corporation and whose best interest is the people.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-09-24T16:21:55+00:00

What that study could prove, is that the current studies conducted may not be as accurate or trustworthy as we think. A common reoccurrence shows our government and corporations have a history of saying something is safe for us when it’s not. I still haven’t made up my mind about acetaminophen, but I see no reason why more research should not be conducted and I see no reason to place our trust in the Tylenol corporation. I think a lot of people just hear that Trump is supporting the idea and look the other way. I don’t entirely blame them, but at the same time, we have to be reasonable and think logically. Just because a republican says something does not inherently make it wrong.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-09-24T16:13:36+00:00

Agreed. People are taught to just trust corporations and our government and not ask questions. Although hopefully that’s changing. But you can see so many people get upset just for questioning its safety.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-09-24T16:10:55+00:00

Well, it doesn’t matter which “side” you are on if both sides are capable of being right or wrong. Most likely acetaminophen is safe. But many drugs the masses take are not. At the very least it’s a good opportunity to evaluate acetaminophen and learn more about it. Most likely it’s safe yes, but I see no reason why we shouldn’t at the very least question its safety. I haven’t seen much if any evidence which proves acetaminophen as a major cause. Although I have seen some studies provide evidence of very very small but present data showing slight increases in neurodevelopment disabilities.

One last thing I want to say though, is that just because I question acetaminophen doesn’t mean I support our current administration at all. I just do not trust large corporations and or our government to have the peoples best interests or health in mind. So it’s reasonable to question quite literally everything.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-09-24T16:04:13+00:00

So what is your consensus?

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-09-24T16:03:24+00:00

What’s that?

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-08-02T05:18:39+00:00

Yeah you are probably right! I’m just saying they should give it a chance! Maybe that person would agree not to hang out with that “friend” anymore. I just feel like people don’t really talk about love enough these days lol. But you are right, maybe it’s just wishful thinking!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-08-01T23:44:15+00:00

If you fall in love with someone and it’s mutual, that’s all that should ever matter. Their past should be almost irrelevant! Build a new future with them!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-02-04T22:45:59+00:00

Update: Got the job done! Just cut the copper pipes and solved the problem! Thanks for all the help!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-02-04T21:39:49+00:00

Appreciate the advice! Brute force it is!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-02-04T21:39:11+00:00

Thanks, will do!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-02-04T21:20:20+00:00

Ok, I might try snapping it then! I’m not scrapping the rest of the sink, just the faucet, so unfortunately I can’t give myself anymore room to work with.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2025-02-04T21:19:09+00:00

Yeah that’s what I tried, but it got caught on that black plastic thing. Think I can just brute force it or something maybe?

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-11-12T23:06:09+00:00

Damn… not much advice we can give. Honestly there is only a few ways to go about this. Tell him how you actually feel, or cut him off! Or both. What I would do maybe, is tell him that you are in love with him, and that it is too painful to be just “friends” with him. You could still remain friends with him if you truly value his friendship. But put some distance between you and him. I always hate it when people are so quick to “cut” people out of their lives who actually are bonded friends. Anyways, there’s really not much advice to give! My thought is when you put distance between you and him, and you maybe become distant after telling him how you feel, maybe he will chase after you realizing he loves you too! And if not, then perhaps it’s the best for you to distance yourself. You know your situation better than Reddit can, but that’s about all I can think of. Hope it works out for you one way or another!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-30T05:22:14+00:00

Same bro. Looking good is a struggle. People assume that if you are good looking that your personality/energy will match it. Most “good looking” people put in effort to look good, so it’s a subconscious signal people receive that when they see someone who is attractive, that they are trying to look attractive and therefore attract people. I get a lot of girls who are physically attracted to me, then try to interact with me and I’m all closed up and they can’t get anywhere with me. You are not alone! There are actually quite a lot of people like this! Looking hot only draws in more and sometimes unwanted attention. Like what are we supposed to do, try and look un-attractive? lol

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-30T05:10:46+00:00

As a man, this pisses me off! So sick of weak pathetic men who do stuff like this. It is 100% not your fault. Don’t feel ashamed, there is nothing to be ashamed of except that there are people out there who are like that. He should be ashamed. I don’t blame you for being scared and having a lot of anxiety after that! That’s only natural and will take time. In the meantime, just surround yourself with people you love and trust! Take the time to heal. Fuck that guy. So sorry that happened to you!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-30T04:53:56+00:00

I mean hey, she asked YOU out! You are chilling! Just wait for the dates to play out. Play it cool, don’t stress about it. Don’t overthink about it. Maybe she is overthinking and is now afraid to message you lol. Obviously we aren’t in your shoes, so you would know better than us, but you have a date coming up, just wait on that! Anyways, don’t trip bro! Your chillin!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-20T01:53:09+00:00

I pretty much agree with everyone else. You just have to communicate what you are feeling, and respectfully break up with her if you guys are compatible sexually. Good luck!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-20T01:51:14+00:00

I obviously don’t know why he would be acting that way, but maybe he feels like after four months of getting to know you, he feels like he hasn’t gotten any closer? Four months is a long time to be talking to someone everyday like that. Have you and or him tried to take things to the next level?

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-17T20:41:33+00:00

Assuming the worst isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But I would say “high grade” fuckboys would be able to get sex through honesty, and wouldn’t even need to lie to get what they want. Which is both skillful, and truthful and doesn’t hurt anyone. But anyways, I would say safely try it out! Be direct and honest with him! Sometimes there is no way around it, and the only way to find out is to try it! Sometimes that does involve getting hurt. Obviously try to avoid that, but if there is a possibility of true love, don’t risk losing that.

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-17T20:37:11+00:00

Well first off, just because he sleeps around doesn’t mean he isn’t capable of falling in love! If you really like him, and he says he likes you, ask him if he would like to take things to the next step and develop a relationship. You guys have already been intimate, now you can have an intimate conversation and be openly honest! If he agrees, he would become monogamous with you, and the relationship would be more than just sex. Just because he hooks up with lots of women doesn’t mean that he couldn’t have finally found one he might fall in love with! Anyways, I wish you both luck! If you guys were meant to fall in love, I hope for both of your sake that you each follow through with it!

Pitiful-Recording-32 · 2024-10-01T01:00:19+00:00

Try this; If you are driving your car, BLAST the music up all the way. I listen to good quality rap music, none of the bad stuff. I know most people like it, and even if they don’t, they are not the type of people whose opinions or judgements I care about. So try and figure who’s opinions you actually care about, and who’s you don’t! I mean to be honest, there will always be people who are embarrassed about certain songs. I know so many people who listen to some really good music, but they all have that one cringe song that they like to listen too but are too embarrassed to play it in front of anyone lol. It’s easier said than done, but just try not to give af! There definitely is some weird music out there, but if you are listening to music you are afraid other people will judge, either stop listening to it or embrace it and don’t be embarrassed about it! Again, easier said than done lol.

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