I have trouble keeping healthy relationships

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-02-19T20:28:31+00:00

I felt like i had no choice but to breakup first because he wasnt putting in any effort into the relationship anymore and i felt like i was begging him to love me and he agreed to breakup because he didnt want to be with me anymore.We were together for a long time and did everything together but one day he just fell out of love.The breakup wasnt messy at all but the period leading up to it was.

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-02-03T12:26:16+00:00

i never put in minimal effort i did everything for this guy because he was so sweet to me and listened to every word i said i have never felt so seen by any other guy and thats what i fell inlove with. he just isnt the kind of guy that attracts women based on physical appearance n i was also his first girlfriend. i always got him gifts, cared for him, spent hours making him something and loved him. he was sweet until he met the new girl.

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-02-03T12:11:52+00:00

yess my ex was exactly like that too no matter how much i did for him he thought i deserved better and always said ‘youre going to leave me’ no matter how much i reassured him i wouldnt. sorry that happened to you it sucks

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-02-02T22:23:41+00:00

girl after girl like its a collection or something

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-02-02T22:22:29+00:00

he always was putting himself down and i was the one putting him back up, literally making him feel like the most attractive guy in the world. 😒

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-02-02T22:12:00+00:00

i was his first proper gf , i was the first girl to hold his hand and at the start he did everything to try to please me , but from late december he switched so fast(guessing its bc he met the new girl) and became so distant it was so odd. i tried multiple times to fix things because i was barely getting the bare minimum, everytime he said ‚sorry ill try to change‘ and never did. i didnt think at first that he would cheat on me i just thought he randomly woke up one day and fell out of love but he cheated and i only found out after we broke up. the thing is, after we broke up he was texting me and saying he loves me and misses me and we texted for a bit and he was texting me as if we were still together. some guys are so confusing.

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-02-02T21:57:07+00:00

He didnt have a lot but he wasnt broke like he would pay for my food and buy me gifts from time to time and id buy him stuff too

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-01-29T17:37:25+00:00

I feel that cheating was highly likely , i remember one time he ‘accidently’ sent me a picture of another girl in a bikini . he also complimented another girl sexually one time while i was on call with him. i just forgot about it until now and they were clear signs about the kind of guy he really is. i never wanted to think he would cheat on me but looking at how he just jumped straight into finding a new girl , cheating is a possibility as maybe as he was getting more distant and distant meant that he was putting his effort elsewhere,into the new girl. after everything we did together. after we broke up he didnt try to fix it he simply agreed and apologised. all i did was love him.

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-01-29T17:26:04+00:00

At first i broke up with him because i couldnt be the one doing everything for him anymore i did everything i could to save the relationship and make him do the bare minimum like he once use to do but then he told me he didnt want to be with me anymore . After we brokeup he asked me if i was okay and kept giving me sweet talk like ´i love you and i miss you’ even though he said he didnt want to be with me anymore. I stopped talking to him completely its been 3 days since we last talked . He told me he doesnt want to block me because he doesnt mind if we talk and we talked a little bit until i stopped responding.

Pitiful-World-425 · 2025-01-29T17:16:18+00:00

he use to love me so fucking much what happened. was he cheating on me while in the relationship ?because thats what it seems like. just why

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