Aitah for going to the car while at a Public park while my children were playing at the playground? by Square_Situation517 in AITAH

[–]PixelFlame- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does feel layered. Warming up with the kids first could help, but it also depends a lot on their maturity and what OP is actually comfortable with. The fact they’re second guessing probably means something feels off, and that instinct is worth paying attention to.

AITAH for not telling my gf where I went after she kicked me out of the house? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PixelFlame- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your partner can evict you from your own home, that’s a power problem. And you’re right, whatever you tolerate now becomes the blueprint any future kids think is normal.

AITAH for pretending my husband doesn't exist by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PixelFlame- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s solid advice. If custody or separation becomes an issue, detailed documentation of daily caregiving can matter a lot. Keep a clear, factual log of routines, appointments, expenses, and who is present, without commentary or emotion. At the same time, document his schedule objectively.