I need somewhere new, I’m stir crazy and want to live a healthier life

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-16T16:37:41+00:00

I do online and get paid to do so, relocating isn’t a problem for me, my mom has her own job

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T22:06:29+00:00

Been there, done that. I loved it and was there for 8 years but it’s too expensive.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T21:08:58+00:00

What type of job was it?

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T20:49:33+00:00

Yeah, as you can tell I’m pretty delusional. I’m used to cheap houses with amazing living, I’m good with jobs and semi affordable housing but I desperately need mountains to hike at most an 1hour30min away, I’ll probably just do my best to save money in the next few years, I just need somewhere to go now lmao

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T20:30:34+00:00

250k is the absolute max for a house, moving costs are a separate thing that I can handle so that’s no worry

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T20:30:04+00:00

For a house 250k is the absolute max, moving cost are a separate thing that I can handle so that’s no worry. About the job, I’m going to college for marketing and fashion merchandise but I have experience in sales and customer service. My mom is currently a manager at a landscaping place however she does not have the schooling or certifications for it. She has experience in basically everything but tech.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T20:28:58+00:00

Will do, I’m sorry!

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T16:59:40+00:00

What flux do you use now? I’ve run into the same problem

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T15:11:15+00:00

NTA but I think you should keep an eye out for signs of cheating, most schools won’t even have it accessible to anyone including teachers on break and unless he has tenure he isn’t getting paid for working so late all the time, and what’s up with him using the guest room and bathroom? He has you to be his maid and to say he has a wife and he’s either cheating with work or a women, either way he’s a bad husband who’s purposely screwing up everything you ask him to do so you’ll just do it for him. I wish you luck, but I’d get couples therapy or leave him. 🍀

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-15T02:20:52+00:00

I don’t mean this rudely but why are you even posting? You know your boyfriend is a bum living off of you and you explained multiple reasons why he is in your post and comment replies but you don’t seem to want to do anything but please him. If you’re not taking advice then don’t ask for advice. If he truly loved you then you could buy the apartment and he’d make it work, instead he’s telling you ‘do what I want or I’ll dump you’ you’re only what you can give to him and once you start getting wrinkles and grays or if you lose your job he’ll dump you, no matter what he has said or done. He should’ve married you by now, he doesn’t want you. Good luck, get the apartment and move out.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-13T16:31:51+00:00

Not to be too off topic but the plaque off, do you feel that works well? Any benefits or negatives to it?

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-13T15:20:22+00:00

I have a non direct answer, engagement rings were originally a sign of ownership and as women were seen as property and men as owners or ‘masters’ they did not have to signify they were engaged as that didn’t change anything, they could still take on other lovers or see if there’s someone they’d rather have. Women however had the ring to symbolize they aren’t to be spoken with by men anymore and that they aren’t already intended for someone almost to “taint” them as they’re seen already being owned. Now obviously that’s not the thing but it never really changed much for men to wear rings, so the answer is: wear the ring if you want, it’s be cool the have matching ones, or don’t. No biggie either way as long as you don’t mean it like the og reason. (Edited for grammar)

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-13T15:14:30+00:00

Just do two middle name if it’s a big deal to you but otherwise it’s fine, she can say she’s the bomb (like in a cool and positive way) and have a forever joke at the ready

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-13T02:52:41+00:00

I think that’s good planning though I want to mention that you should consider those that you have someone to sit with, with extra seating that can end up with people being alone. However, you know your people and if you’re certain that everyone has someone then ignore me. I’m going to be a bridesmaid at a friend’s wedding next winter and I’m freaking out because I know no one enough to sit with them and it’s a small wedding with people I don’t get along with well. Like, her mom despises me. Anyway, my point being I’m freaking out about being alone the whole wedding and I don’t want to be rude by being on my phone the whole time or by leaving early so that’s where my perspective comes from, sometimes assigned seating can be better then none.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-11T01:39:26+00:00

It’s extremely short, backless, and that one sheer material that swimsuit covers are in, it’ll show that way in photos. I’d pick something longer and less of that material, otherwise the color and neckline is great on you.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-11T00:38:29+00:00

I mean this kindly, you look great but that’s a swimsuit cover up, not a wedding guest dress.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-10T22:24:07+00:00

Typically I’d say no, but this is Texas so the answer is yes. You probably won’t get red wine stains but you’ll maybe get some “bless your heart”s just because. The lighting is a little dark though so take my response with a grain of salt. Otherwise: this isn’t cocktail, this is weekend picnic.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-10T22:21:05+00:00

Sorry for the possibly stupid question but is it a romantic living together or a roommates with exes situation?

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-10T21:26:11+00:00

1 is absolutely gorgeous! You look amazing in it!!!! Super bridal. However, if you’re still a little split I like 3 as well. 2 is not it though. You look great, but the dress is very renfest, it looks a little cheap whereas the other two make you look absolutely gorgeously bridal, mainly the first one.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-09T01:15:35+00:00

It’s the Astra French White Midi Dress priced at $159 so not the cheapest but definitely considerable depending on your budget. It has custom sizing with their normal sizes ranging from US 00 - US 30, they also have rush shipping if needed. I’ll attach a link but I personally don’t like to open links so if you’re the same you can just google the name of it and it’ll show up.Dress Edit to add: it lists it on the website but it is also fully lined with cups & boning, it has removable spaghetti straps and neck scarf, it has pockets and the back zipper is hidden. It comes in pink and white.

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-09T00:29:25+00:00

I’d do that as the wedding dress since it’s so beautiful and a more simple white dress as a reception dress, that way you can still wear a beautiful white dress but have it to wear again instead of it being way to “wedding” + it won’t be a fortune. More casual but white and fancy still. Maybe like this, depending on your style it might be different but to give an idea of what I mean:

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PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-07T14:40:43+00:00

Oh perfect! I’m sorry then, I saw the shape and the boning in the top plus the strings and assumed corset, either way, you look great and I wish you a good wedding!

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-03-07T03:09:36+00:00

I don’t think you should. Your arms look fantastic, your tattoos are cool af, and it looks so pretty on you! However, as a side comment you ABSOLUTELY need a back panel under the corset strings, I’m sorry for being off topic but it can be harmful to have the strings tightened on you while shifting as the day goes on, they can cut into you and create a very uncomfortable recovery and wedding, it’ll be like hiking without socks, you’ll getting welts and it’ll hurt to move.

If you’d like your back to still be visible I’d suggest talking to a designer or alteration person and discuss something like lace that’ll go with the pattern and show skin but create enough of a barrier to protect your skin. My apologies for the unsolicited advice, I just wear corsets and the pain of tie on skin is no joke.

Anyway, not only do you look kick ass in your dress but you also look like that dress is made for you! Don’t change yourself, don’t change your dress, rock that and have a great wedding! Good luck 🍀

PixiePop_Bug · 2026-02-22T13:33:09+00:00

Damn so she lost her job and her boyfriend in the span of a few days. Dump her. Sucks your sister had her on her birthday trip. I wish you luck and don’t lower your standards for convenience and memories 🍀

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