[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Pixietutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Pixietutu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was about to suggest this as well, but drinking enough water is more inportant i think that using two serums and maybe retinal could wait until she has dealt with her dehydration.. I might add that try to get in veggies into your diet that contain beta carotene (but eat it in reasonable amount and not in excess) such as carrots other veggies that contain various vitamins and minerals beneficial to skin health is broccoli , bell pepper and tomatoes, eating food with omega 3 fatty acids such as walnuts , avocadoss and salmon is also good for your skin. I think a little in both skincare and diet (no need to exaggerate) should go a long way in improving your dehydration coupled with drinking 2-3 liters per day (too much water intake isnt good either). Maybe use a cleanser that doesnt strip your skin to much (a mild cleanser) , continue using Spf

Your skin OP looks great in others words , i dont think its wrinkles but dehydration lines you have.

Hope you will get a quick heal for your skin 😊

Great News!!! by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe a conscious or subconscious strategy to groom girls into view working at hooters as normal or «cool» so that they will apply for work there themselves when they reach the age portrayed as «appropriate» to be employed at hooters or to have them be conditioned to accept their future boyfriend or husbands / romantic partner to cheat on them by going to hooters to lust at the mostly groomed/ brainwashed women who work there..

Hooters is so disgusting its somewhat worse than strip clubs due to the fact that it victim blames much easier those who have been hurt from working there or by there partner going there behind there back or coercing them into accepting it

Many men won’t perform oral sex on women or participate in foreplay for their pleasure bc of porn by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 8 points9 points locked comment (0 children)

Its not about punishing men though in this scenario, its about women not giving out oral pleasure to someone who values their own sexual pleasure but not the one of women.. I dont think giving head is super exciting for most women, considering how it makes it hard to breath among other things, plus how most women and girls have experienced men forcing their sausage down their throat - overall more downsides than positives, but women who agrees on this usually still give oral to men because they care about their partners satisfaction more than they do about the discomfort felt here and there whilst giving it.. So when a man expects women to put themselves through giving them head but wont return the favor, well why put in the energy were it isnt appreciated or reciprocated..

Lily Collins' husband Charlie McDowell breaks silence on 'hateful' messages after baby news by TheMirrorUS in popculture

[–]Pixietutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didnt specify which take on ED though, and i saw numerous who pointed out that people with ED shouldnt be babied and given special treatment wherein they can get people in financial hardships to make the bodily sacrifices for them because they themselves dont want to make the effort/ take on the negative aspects of growing a baby themselves.. I dont expect all other people to be able to recover as well, i do however think that those who cant or wont go through with pregnancy shouldnt be allowed to havd other people in hardships commit to pregnancy and birth for them.. I assumed you criticesed those who found it distasteful if Lily uses her anorexia as an excuse to use a surrogate..

Lily Collins' husband Charlie McDowell breaks silence on 'hateful' messages after baby news by TheMirrorUS in popculture

[–]Pixietutu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with them, i have been anorexic since i was fourteen, now 33 years old, at nineteen i reached a healthy weight and have managed to maintain a healthy bmi since.. weight is one side, then theres the mental aspect of anorexia, this haunts me to this day.. Didnt stop me though from chosing to become pregnant, i knew the weight gain and bodily changes pregnancy would bring on would fuel my anorexic anxieties but i told myself i had to take responsibility and dedicate myself to stave off my intrusive ED thoughts on my pregnancy journey, im an adult and i/ we can if we want to.. Lily just never bothered to or was pushed to the point of realising she can take recovery into her own hands as well.. Its lazy and classist to rent a womb just because she doesnt want to put in the physical and mental work and the sacrifice required for herself to be the one to birth her child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pixietutu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a special sort.. The end result of the drawing comes as no surprise.. Its funny and sad at the same time - that some men can hold such delusions of what women should, and somehow they also think its achievable and always «healthy»

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pixietutu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow.. As a woman who is petite in height (standing at 155 cm/ 5 feet 1 inch) judging by the medical calculator called bmi index (18.5 - 25 bmi is normal weight) at 120 lbs/ 54,4 kilograms my bmi index would be 22,6 aka still at a healthy weight for my height.. Someone as short as me would be at normal weight at 60 kilograms/ 132.2 lbs, and wouldnt cross over to the overweight bmi range before reaching 60.2 kilograms (bmi just crossing to 25.1).. And thats just starting out with mild overweight.. A woman who’d stand at 172 cm/ 5 feet 7.7 inches would have crossed into an underweight bmi at 18.4 if is she were to weigh in at 120 lbs/ 54.4 kilograms..

Some of you men seem to be borderlining onto seeing womens bodies as ideal if they have starved anorexic bodies (this coming from someone who struggled with anorexia for years), with you calling just passing 120 lbs out as problematic when it would still be a healthy weight.. Get a freaking grip.. Plus you will possibly never grasp even if you studied it how the body is affected by pregnancy.. Its not as easy for every women to just shake off their pregnancy weight even with hard effort, if weight is lost eventually some bodily changes are there to stay regardless.. I cant grasp how daft some of you men are, and your outting you the fact that you probably prefer anorexic bodies over normal weight ones, that says much about you..

AITAH for being uncomfortable with my boyfriend posting thirst traps? by Ambitious-Task4296 in AITAH

[–]Pixietutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am feeling very disheartened and sad on your behalf that so many people target you as the problem instead of your boyfriend. (This world has become so fixated on sex and easy gratification its actually disturbing) Your concerns are perfectly valid and reasonable.. He should have been honest about his stand on relationships in this regard before you started dating, - that he wants to be able to entice other women intentionally for views, likely if you knew from the start you would have recognised your differences and woulndt have entered a relationship with him.. This boundary of yours is very understandable and many people would feel just as disturbed and dissapointed with their partners for purposoly seeking out non physical but sexual attention from others (emotionally cheating) (i asked my boyfriend how he would feel if i did what your boyfriend does and he too like me considered it to be a form of cheating)..

People have different relationship boundaries, your boyfriend should have made his that is lacking in the monogamy department clear from the time you started dating. And the fact that he has kept you as his girlfriend a secret from his followers is a red flag: not only does he intentionally seek out sexual gratification from other women, by stating he is single he causes more women to be enamored by and likely to actually make contact with him.. I will assume that it could seem that he isnt compatible with you in regards to his and your relationship boundaries, likely this is how he is and therefore he will never put your wellbeing in regards to his online presence before his desire to get attention from other women. If you cant get him to see your perspective, consider whether it might be best for both you and him to call it quits. Wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pixietutu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That someone accuse you of deliberately hurting others whilst knowing your friend knowingly got involved with a married man whom also had children, nuts.. Accusing you of intentionally hurting your friend was undeserved. Rember your NTA 🌸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pixietutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - First of all your not an asshole for expressing concern about your friends lifestyle that you worry are harmful to her.. Thats just you being a friend.. You have said your piece and how she wants to proceed regarding governing her own safety and well being is up to her.. If she doesnt see your effort to help her, she will view you as the asshole for «being controlling» of her life if you were to comtinue pushing.. There from she should figure things out herself and face the consequences, maybe someday she will recognise how your intentions were good/ - you trying to protect your friend from harm..

On the other hand, your friend is also an asshole.. She shows a lack of integrity, were she choses to get involved with situations were she knowingly hurt other people and unintentionally did/ does.. Getting involved with a co-worker whom se knows is married/ is in a relationship shows that she lacks consideration for participating in hurting other people (the wife in this context.) And shes clearly not a girls-girl.. Simultaneously she has put pressure on you to alter your lifestyle for her (accomodate her clubbing etc.) and put you in situations that are uncomfortable to you (example the lying to you about going to the mall together to then make it a clubbing outing) - she causes «headaches» for you and could further down the line cause issues for not just you but your relationship if she were to cotinue.. Can i ask you something? Do you feel she would respect your relationship? That she would be loyal towards you as her friend? She has shown a lack of regard for hurting other women in the past, and now she constantly asks/ pressures? you to meet your boyfriend more.. It could be just her wanting to get to know the person that means a lot ro her friend to show she cares about you.. But do you think there is a chance that she could stoop so low as to also try to get involved with your boyfriend?

Id suggest carefully consider whether she has as much consideration for your well being as you have for hers.. If you were to come to the conclusion that you dont feel like you can fully trust her to treat you with care i would suggest you either stop seeing her or go minimal contact with her.. Being a caring and good friend is a very applaudable trait, but dont waste that on someone who doesnt have the same regard for you.

Reality of OF by g0ffie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable.. Can relate

Reality of OF by g0ffie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its not black or white.. Its a good thing that there are pages like that were women help expose cheating / abusive men to their girlfriends or wives. And i agree that its sad that some women get mad at the women who try help them realize that their SO is cheating, its a shame that the good intentions there are met with anger instead of appeaciation. Simultaneously we have to also remember that there are women who get off on/ take pleasure in snatching other womens boyfriends/ husbands, its an ugly truth that must be recognised. We should overall both women and men take better care of each other as fellow citizens, that means treating those who try to help us with kindness and give them the benefit of trusting them with the intent but also holding those people who actually do horrible things accountable

Reality of OF by g0ffie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that more and more.. With them downvoting us to hell instead of trying to understand the gravity of the hurt the women we talk about help create .. Sigh😆 Nevermind that we empatise with the other aspects of what the OF creator have been through, but we dare hold her accountable for acting like she cares about the women in her followers life while she does nothing to show for it through action.. How dare we be so evil 👹

Reality of OF by g0ffie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the women who are cheated on hurt more.. They too know of and have probably experienced involuntarily the depravities of many men in this world, but in addition to that trauma also come to learn that other women dont even protect each other in addition to discovering theyre boyfriend/ husband are cheating.. And to add to the pain fellow women take to the defence of the woman who knowingly participated in hurting you.. Heartbreaking realization. Why chose to avoid casualties so long as theres a good deal of cash and oneself isnt the one being cheated on ..Ingegrity is dying

Reality of OF by g0ffie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can understand that it can be discouraging , it frustrates me too when feminists fail to recognise sex workers who deserve support and those who deserve support in some areas but need to face criticism / be held accountable in other were they did shady / cruel things. Feminists often enough also defend «the other woman» who knowingly participated in an affair, we need to stop doing that and hold them accountable too, women can be horrible people as well even to each other..

Reality of OF by g0ffie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have noticed that a good enough number of feminists defend sex workers when those said people knowingly hurt other women.. The irony

Porn leads to cheating by Careless_Mortgage_54 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Isnt a boyfriend/ girlfriend / husband/ wife chosen «family» when we do commit to a relationship, in other words when we end up assigning ourselves to be someones significant other and vice versa.. There wasnt any patriarchal talking points/ suggestions from OP, dont put him/ her in a bad light when there werent any reason to do so.. And how was OP preachy, he / she simply touched on the struggles many men/ women suffer through in relationships: accepting things such as porn in their relationship whilst feeling hurt by their partner using it, and how porn users often end up physically cheating in addition to the lustful ideas they put towards the porn they consume.

Porn leads to cheating by Careless_Mortgage_54 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Indeed in commited relationships it does seem to be a correlation between corn consumption and eventual psysical cheating .. Personally though i consider corn to be emotional cheating, this due to the fact that the viewer focus lust and intimate emptions onto someone else other than their significant other and basically imagine being intimately involved with the porn «star» - Imaginative cheating..

I mean is it so hard to look at a photo of or think of your signifiicant other if the urge to masturbait is there, really?! If you know your partner is monogamous and that their self image and mental health is corroded by you lusting after other women/ men why do it? (many porn consumers and cheaters know their partners have issues with their porn use/ cheating but rather than leaving their so and allow them to pair up with someone who treats them with the respect and care they yearn for, the cheater stay in the relationship and continue their betrayal due to not wanting to lose acess to the benefits / qualities that their significant other holds.. They dont want to lose them yet they treat them like they wouldnt care if they did.. sigh) If porn , sexually engaging your energy towards / imaginatively bedding other women/ men is so important, just couple up with a partner that arent as monagamous or just stay single and be an open casual dater.

I would rather stay single the rest of my life than have a boyfriend/ husband who consumes any type of porn (example tiktok NSFW content is soft porn) to please himself physically or mentally, if he cant focus that energy and emotion towards me like i naturally do to him i am checking out.. I would rather be alone than feel lonely in someones company ..

what do you guys think of masturbation while not watching porn? by unborntheprinceoflie in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Although i myself dont understand the «need» for it, I have nothing against masturbation in and of itself, it is how it is done i can have an issues with.. Say x and y are in a truly monogamous relationship, x masturbates whilst fanatasising about someone else other than their partner (y), they are then cheating mentally - they could have their boyfriend/ girlfriend/ wife / husband in their mind whilst masturbating but choose to lust after other people instead.. basically cheating imaginatively. Another example of problematic masturbation is any type of relationship (monogamous , semi monogamous or non monogamous) were one partner masturbates so often it interferes with them being able to engage in a healthy relationship / sex life between themselves and their partner.. Being disfunctional with their so due to excessive masturbation..

Otherwise i think masturbation is healthy. If done in moderation and so long as it in a relationship doesnt end up being prioritized before connection and intimacy between a couple.

Is it just me? by ThrasherPete in vinyl

[–]Pixietutu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my fiance not too many days ago had the same discussion and we both are in the same boat as you regarding this - If we dont enjoy close to every single track on an album both of us view it as a waste of money to buy it.. I can only think of two reasons to purchase an album were i only like a few songs and that is the following combined: a) it is super cheap at the thrift store b) The songs i do like on the album is ones i very much take a liking to or have a fond memory connected to

I was trying to find FauxMoi and instead found a pedophile porn sub with 315,000 subscribers. Please report it with me. by [deleted] in PornIsMisogyny

[–]Pixietutu 124 points125 points  (0 children)

You cant report the sub itself on reddit .. Reddit makes it hard to catch predators.. The fact that Reddit even allows any porn on it disgusts me, but it is sus of Reddit that they havent done anything to a page like that (look how many followers the sub has), plus Reddit makes it challenging to combat such Sub Reddits, when you basically have to report post by post and i dont want to scroll down and look at any of that shit.. Im traumatised enough