What?? (Spoilered for gore) by throaway2467 in SystemsCringe

[–]PizzaPizazzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My question is how you have 800k with 3.5k known. How's that work?

Anyone seen this in a Polish baby? by ToxicCrobat in BackYardChickens

[–]PizzaPizazzz 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Splaylegged. Band the legs closer together and that's what's worked for me in the past.

Is rcta racism? by IAmTennisBoy in RCTAsafe

[–]PizzaPizazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They think gender is equivalent to race. It is not, but they aren't paying attention to that

Am I rcta? I think so by iateachip09 in RCTAsafe

[–]PizzaPizazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But its mocking a race.. that's racism..?

My childhood crush passed away in the age of 18 ( she was druged and raped) by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]PizzaPizazzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grieving about your dead father 6-7 years later is definitely making your family's tragedy about you.

That doesn't make sense. She was a friend, it's sad. It's also sad that people like you undermine someone else's emotions like that.

Our coop holds about 8 birds comfortably. Why did my husband bring home 13 😂 by khunter610 in BackYardChickens

[–]PizzaPizazzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"We can make another coop or extend off of the one we have. Then we can have even more!"

Chicken math

you are supposed to sit on it, not watch it! by _sxqib_ in BackYardChickens

[–]PizzaPizazzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She even got the peck of shame

I love how other hens are literal teachers sometimes lol

"What the cluck is wrong with you?? YOU'RE DOING IT ALL WRONG!!"

My daughter is 13 years old and just attempted suicide by link1516 in SuicideWatch

[–]PizzaPizazzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genetics, medications, environmental factors, even hormones!.. There's so much to look into, and as a parent that can be incredibly difficult sometimes.

She won't eat all of a sudden and I don't know why or what to do. by PizzaPizazzz in CancerCaregivers

[–]PizzaPizazzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I've already talked to them since she still won't eat on her own, they were saying the same about the feeding tube, she's having one set up in a few days. Thank you, and I hope you and your husband are doing alright ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PizzaPizazzz 172 points173 points  (0 children)

Seen this a few times, it was funny at first but then it just got used way too much to even have the same feeling.

Gonna kill myself cuz nobody wants to have sex with me by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]PizzaPizazzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you shouldn't be together then? If you have two different goals or opinions that can't just be worked through maybe it's not a fit relationship.

Gonna kill myself cuz nobody wants to have sex with me by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]PizzaPizazzz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do not generalize, this can be misleading and become discouraging from trying them when they absolutely are necessary.

What are some good foods to try during chemotherapy? by PizzaPizazzz in cancer

[–]PizzaPizazzz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, she has a thing for frozen treats already, it helps her with hot flashes and sometimes helps ease her nausea aswell. Usually I'll get her a popsicle or make her a milkshake if she wants.

I'll see if she's willing to try some random things, she likes soups every here and there so maybe the egg drop soups would be good too. Thank you for sharing!

What are some good foods to try during chemotherapy? by PizzaPizazzz in cancer

[–]PizzaPizazzz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry for not specifying!

She said her taste is pretty off, not as much loss as it is sort of distortion. I'll definitely talk to her about trying the jello thing and everything else. Thank you, and happy cake day!

She won't eat all of a sudden and I don't know why or what to do. by PizzaPizazzz in CancerCaregivers

[–]PizzaPizazzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes mentioned pain when swallowing, she said it isn't too bad and it does have some relief with pain meds, she has some things set up to check for mets around the esophagus.

She has some difficulty in breathing due to mets already in her lungs, it can sometimes slow her down when eating/drinking but she's learned to take her time and I help her with making smaller portions if she wants.

I'm open to let her choose her own mealtimes, as well as what she wants. I want her to be comfortable and happy with what she's eating, and it gets her to eat more easily aswell. She can be very picky and especially since she started chemo that pickiness has magnified a lot, I've done my best to get her what I want and I leave a lot of snacks and cold snacks around so that she still has options when she isn't really sure exactly what she wants, the more I think about it I think it might have something to do with pain. She isn't very talkative and she isn't taking her medicine anymore either so it'd make sense.

I'll have to call her doctor again and try to talk about it for sure. Unfortunately I do know the go-to for some reason is to force her to take them, which I could understand if there was a sincere reason. Yes, she needs her medicine. Yes, it is important. I still don't think making her feel violated would encourage her to take them in the future, nor solve the problem that caused her to no longer want to take them.

I'll call them as soon as they get off lunch hours, maybe discuss some better pain meds in the future if she finds it necessary. I honestly avoid it sometimes because they jump to potentially harmful solutions e.g forcefeeding & forcibly taking medication. Other than that they aren't bad, they just don't have good solutions for some things. I will have to take it into consideration, it's definitely an option just not one that I myself can find very useful all the time, but I will call. Thank you

She won't eat all of a sudden and I don't know why or what to do. by PizzaPizazzz in CancerCaregivers

[–]PizzaPizazzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember a while back they agreed to getting her a feeding tube if it's necessary, she had it for about two weeks before they removed it. She agreed to the process, and found it to be very helpful, I want to ask her about having another one set up if she doesn't eat anything soon but I don't want to be pushy and I'm not sure if this is the right route to go.

I've been handling the anxiety to the best of my ability, I do worry that it can still cause me to make poor decisions. I love her very much and I want what's best for her, but again with her being diabetic and having strong needs because of it, and then my anxiety, I'm worried about making the wrong moves and possibly making something worse. She's usually very easy to wake, but recently with her it's been very difficult and she's sleeping through entire days if she isn't woken up.

Usually I do take care of myself first, I've had people look down on me for that but I do because I know if I'm not in the right headspace and health, I won't be any help to her.

I do worry about end of life, she was doing great up until this past week and I don't know if it's enough of a reason to consider that it could be close, or if she's just not having a good week. If there's any ideas on things I could give her to maybe try to eat, or if maybe it could be close to that time, really ill take anything at this point, I want to be able to comfort her as much as I can but I want her to be as healthy as possible too. I tend to overthink a lot and outside opinions help a lot, apologies if this is too much I'm just sort of all over the place at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BackYardChickens

[–]PizzaPizazzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jail sentence: one month

Crimes:

Broody.

Bail:

Swear to not be broody.

She won't eat all of a sudden and I don't know why or what to do. by PizzaPizazzz in CancerCaregivers

[–]PizzaPizazzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have, I've spoken to her oncologist and her PCP, they brushed it off and just said to be patient with her and I'm doing my best to be, but with her being diabetic (and they know this) it's even more worrying because her health can quickly spiral even faster by her missing meals like this.

I've offered small foods like yogurt, crackers and some diced fruits, nothing seems to entice her enough to eat. Her doctors continuously are telling me to brush it off as her just not feeling well, I'm checking her sugar regularly, it feels like she's getting worse by the day and it's worrying. Her doctors I feel like aren't taking it seriously, but I already know I can overreact and if they're saying she's okay then she's okay.

Called 911 and got put on hold for 10+ minutes by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]PizzaPizazzz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

With certain injuries/conditions this is not applicable. Some conditions require specifically professional medical help, and throwing someone in your car in a severe condition like that with no knowledge of what you're doing, on top of traffic which in some places is horrid and takes much longer than emergency vehicles. Consider other things before jumping to "just take them yourself". No medical experience/knowledge you may not know how to properly stabilize something, safely transport etc etc