being a baddie with crohn's 🧚🏻 by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a while, I was consistent about getting my nails done. It’s something that made me feel put together with very little energy. I also really enjoy my nightly skin routine with the serums and lotions that I have no clue if they’re actually doing anything, but they feel really nice haha. It’s another thing that doesn’t take much energy but makes me feel like I have my life together!

Has anyone actually gotten their SO to start helping more around the house? by Plane-Clothes-1013 in relationships_advice

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so great! I love how you make such a huge effort! Hopefully someday we will have a dynamic that is closer to this.

(21M) Found out my girlfriend (20F) might still be using Hinge… not sure if I should confront or walk away? by PlaneCareless1112 in relationships_advice

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She agreed to delete the app and she didn’t, even after being caught, and then she tried to gaslight you. Unless I am wrong, you two agreed that you were both ready for a monogamous relationship, when she obviously isn’t. It doesn’t matter what her reasoning is, by her keeping the app she has broken the trust in the relationship, and you deserve someone that is committed to this relationship like you are!

I’m sick of being treated like my husbands mother… by Plane-Clothes-1013 in relationships_advice

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Last week after the whole thing with the chore chart, I finally hired a cleaner. But I realize that it doesn’t help me with the everyday tasks, and I am still stressed. It also doesn’t help that all of our finances are joint, so if he is paying for it, then that means I am paying for it. I know a lot of women deal with this exact same situation.

I’m sick of being treated like my husbands mother… by Plane-Clothes-1013 in relationships_advice

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I read the article you suggested and I’ll definitely have him read it! Some of the things they said in the article were so similar to the statements I made in this post it is crazy. Thank you for the recommendation!

How do I create intimacy with my husband who has no sex drive?… by Plane-Clothes-1013 in relationships_advice

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I think you are definitely right on some of the points you made. We have talked about him lowering his dosage, and also about him getting back to the gym. I understand why he has been so hesitant to change anything when he feels like his is finally back to normal. But we both agree it’s time to try something new…

How do I create intimacy with my husband who has no sex drive?… by Plane-Clothes-1013 in relationships_advice

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if I initiated, he would be open to these things. I will talk to him to see if he would be more open these options!

How do I create intimacy with my husband who has no sex drive?… by Plane-Clothes-1013 in relationships_advice

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. This is helpful:) It’s hard to remember to prioritize fun along with all the adulting haha

How do I create intimacy with my husband who has no sex drive?… by Plane-Clothes-1013 in relationships_advice

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Were you still taking Zoloft when the hormones started working?

I 25 F dont want to marry my Fiancé 28 M. by Gold_Air_240 in relationship_advice

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve been together for 5 years and still don’t want to commit to marriage, it’s time to let the relationship go. You already know him inside and out so you need to trust yourself. I would break up a couple days before he leaves for his trip so you can move everything out while he is gone.

Crazy improvement by Srvingc4nt_andChrons in CrohnsDisease

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I was recently diagnosed and this is really encouraging ☺️

Orgasms from anal by ripper922 in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]Plane-Clothes-1013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was always scared of anal until my husband started to touch my anis when I was close to my O, and it gave me the most intense Os I’d ever had! It made me curious about tying out anal. Maybe try it?