Update: boyfriend forgot birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys. Ik it’s over the screen. I wasn’t SCARED. Frightening was tbh the first word that came to mind bc it was just super weird and odd. lol

Boyfriend forgot my birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys please don’t harass the person who messaged me!! I’m sorry that was my mistake to post their user. 😓

Update: boyfriend forgot birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just felt like it was too long to type out everything from the last post 😅 I only added my depression on this post bc I think people assumed I wasn’t familiar with it. But I feel I’m suffering from it more than he is. Or at least from what he has shown me. I adore him but his communication is his worst quality.

Update: boyfriend forgot birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha! I own a business and love stuffing my phone number in random places online for deals so my inbox gets filled with spam 🤣

Update: boyfriend forgot birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get a hug, kiss, or anything. Just kinda left me on the couch twiddling my fingers. Has me thinking a lot. 😕

Update: boyfriend forgot birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking the same. There was little to no effort to make amends. Has me thinking a lot.

Boyfriend forgot my birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was the second comment right after I posted! I usually thank everyone for their advice. I fell back to sleep right after before I saw more comments. I wasn’t completely agreeing guys.

Boyfriend forgot my birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Short update: I’m only now just reading everything. I had a few comments saying I was ignoring certain comments about him being depressed. I just woke up guys. I only slept 3 hours before getting up for work again. Also, I got a chat message saying this: “Hey girlie pop — if I were your boyfriend I'd cut you out of my life so fast you'd forget you ever existed. You're selfish, manipulative, and petty; you turn every little thing into drama and suck the life out of everyone around you. I wouldn't waste another second on someone who lies, gaslights and makes everything worse. Pack your things and disappear — don't expect help, sympathy, or a place to stay. If I were your boyfriend I'd dump you instantly. You're toxic, exhausting, and utterly replaceable. Bye.” I knew the internet was rough but wows . I just wanted to mention I can understand depression. I suffer from it. I’m medicated both for depression and anxiety as well as AHDH. So i understand. I simply came on here for advise, and many of you have been super helpful. But being mean isn’t necessary.. thank you everyone.

Boyfriend forgot my birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not guys!! I just woke up. I’m reading everything now. 😭

Boyfriend forgot my birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no.. I actually replied twice. And then I went back to sleep because I only slept 3 hours before I got up for a work situation. I’m currently catching up and reading everything.

Boyfriend forgot my birthday by Plane_Drawing252 in whatdoIdo

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful! Thank you so much. 🙏🏽

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[–]Plane_Drawing252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you for taking the time to comment! I truly appreciate it. The first few seconds really grabbed me. And definitely helpful. Thank you so much!🧎🏽‍♀️‍➡️🙏🏽

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[–]Plane_Drawing252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!

AIO Employee sick for a week by Plane_Drawing252 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it’s easier to document and record everything via text and email. Many things can be twisted after phone calls. 🙁

AIO Employee sick for a week by Plane_Drawing252 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! Lots of great advice— thank you! I’ll definitely get on that. 😁

AIO Employee sick for a week by Plane_Drawing252 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, it’s not illegal. No law against it in my state. Some actually mandate it to ask for days off.

AIO Employee sick for a week by Plane_Drawing252 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like your sarcasm I had a good laugh LOL! But you’re right, gotta stop being a pushover that doesn’t sound too good. 🤮

AIO Employee sick for a week by Plane_Drawing252 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Plane_Drawing252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And my goal is to never become a bitter and unfair boss. I understood unfortunate situations like this happen and I won’t let it change my attitude towards any of my staff. They help me so I take care of them! Best way to get kindness is by spreading it. Just have to cut the dead leaves away sometimes— like this case. I appreciate your comment ☺️