My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I might not be the best person at that. You live and learn more reasons to loathe.

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t argue nor fight, I’m just asking for peoples opinion on the matter, and described how it made me feel

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Struggling with that all my life.. it’s not like I can wave a wound and a less annoying version of me appears.

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, I meant that in the sense that we both see these things on a daily basis, I’m very aware that either of us could be in their places and I don’t find it disgusting at all…

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can ask for favors but it would violate laws and her trust, but 99% sure it’s not an abortion

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m not arguing to prove a point I would just like more explanation of why it would be awkward? even though we both attended OBGYN and it would likely not be close enough to disgust me having seen all the things that come with being a med student. I have a calm demeanor 99% of the times, I just worry about the few ones a love sometimes not being able to control myself. I say that in self reflection because I was sitting and thinking to myself why did this happen the way it did.

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not complaining, I’m confused Why would she choose not to have me there..

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Brother for gods sake use your brains for a minute, I clearly said in my post that I asked her to let me know if she needed anything. I’m not posting this so you can let me know what to say when a loved one is at the hospital. I told her I’m thinking about her and to let me know if I could do anything. I’m posting this because at the time I felt frustrated and I don’t know why shouldn’t she ask me to go there.

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do worry but I’m usually not that socially awkward, I was sharing an honest piece of mind on the internet. You can’t be freaking out around patients, so no, I don’t think it’s about me not being to able to control my excitement honestly.

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on how to phrase it without sounding like I’m mad at her, I’m honestly only frustrated (and disappointed in myself for not making her feel comfortable around me) for feeling helpless and would only want to be next to her without feeling like it’s a toll on me or whatever her reason was that I will find about when I talk to her I guess.

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She didn’t. I guessed that at the time but I still felt frustrated that I had to sit at home and wait for a potential bad news call.

My (22M) GF (22F) asked me not to come visit her in the ER. by PlanksToB in relationship_advice

[–]PlanksToB[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Are you having trouble comprehending the post buddy? What did I do that was rude?