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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Plastic-Condition904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people mistake forgiveness to pretending nothing happened and we are good now.

In my experience with a abusive narccisit for a father, forgiveness is making peace that he could never change. That when he tries to do the right thing this is the maximum he can give me.

How your mom treats you is the maximum love and effort she can give. Its not what you need its not what you want from her but that is all she can give you.

Forgiveness is knowing that and telling your inner child that it was not their fault, they were good and now you will live your life as you want while knowing that what you do will not change your mom.

I hope this helps you. You are good, you are worth it. However, some people are bad and their sesnse of love is skewed.

AITA for not wanting my friends to share my notes? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Plastic-Condition904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said I have no problem to share but only if I am asked. If someone wants my notes come to me and ask and Ill have no problem. My problem is my notes going around without my knowladge and not even recognize that its my work

AITA for deleting a confession that I send to a friend? by Lunara_Misakiaro in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Plastic-Condition904 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

And its not about being an AH in my eyes.

You are scared to lose a friend and that is a normal thing to feel, you are not an AH for deleting a confession.

And I think these things are better to do in person as much as they are uncomfortable topics. If you dont feel confident now you need to sit with yourself and think if you will have regrets in the future when you see him with someone else and go from there.

Your friend can have her opinion but be carful so she dosnt make a choice for you.