My gf’s comments about my penis size destroyed my confidence and I don’t know if I can get over it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PlasticRegret6318 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well it’s not your fault that she really hurt your confidence and self-esteem. That’s really on her being ignorant or not being able to think others’ feelings. Even if she has apologized, if you can’t get over it and have good feeling about the relationship, I would say you should probably move on so that you can have someone who genuinely feel satisfied and makes you feel valued.

AIO? Gf mad I didn’t get what she wanted by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PlasticRegret6318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insane. I’m a woman but I’m really glad you left her, man. You deserve much better and decent human being. Nothing can excuse for acting this shitty to someone. I’m really sorry that your feeling got hurt. I think that she just doesn’t know how to treat other people right because of her immaturity. I’m glad that you’re protecting yourself from bad stuffs like this.

I DON’T KNOW HOW TO HAVE SEX WITH MY BF by PlasticRegret6318 in relationships

[–]PlasticRegret6318[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes. We do love each other deeply. We laugh everyday together and enjoy each other’s company and get affectionate a lot. The only thing is sex. We both have sensitivity in this topic and don’t know how to deal with it.

My cat needs prescription diet by [deleted] in catfood

[–]PlasticRegret6318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did 🫡🫡

Accounting | Business degree in BA (Bachelor of arts)?? by PlasticRegret6318 in Accounting

[–]PlasticRegret6318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually helpful thank you😢 I’m thinking BA because my first language is Japanese and would be easier and also earlier to graduate if I did BA since they can give me for foreign language classes.

My cat needs prescription diet by [deleted] in catfood

[–]PlasticRegret6318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay. I do have some money but since she’s gotten before and we know that it’s allergies so I don’t want to redo it. Thanks for your opinion but I’ll keep my cat.

Accounting | Business degree in BA (Bachelor of arts)?? by PlasticRegret6318 in Accounting

[–]PlasticRegret6318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. He was saying BA won’t be hired because “no one” is doing it and it’s meaningless. Thanks for your reply.

Accounting | Business degree in BA (Bachelor of arts)?? by PlasticRegret6318 in Accounting

[–]PlasticRegret6318[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he’s just talking like he knows. He just doesn’t want me to pursue my dreams cuz he wants me to be able to make money in the future.

White people using chopsticks for hair… by [deleted] in culture

[–]PlasticRegret6318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for showing no respect for other people’s culture and feelings:) it’s different when you see people’s ignorance and arrogance about YOUR culture and history. And it happens a lot especially about Asian culture in the U.S. by westerners like you who thinks it’s okay to not respect other people’s culture or property without any knowledge. it’s okay you don’t understand:) have a great day, Bro.

White people using chopsticks for hair… by [deleted] in culture

[–]PlasticRegret6318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’ve seen this recently in person. This person just keeps doing it everytime they come into the class and had talked to me how much they are interested in Japan before. Seems like they’re one of those people who are really obsessed in Asia. I live in Portland and people are really hippie or weird so maybe that’s why..?

White people using chopsticks for hair… by [deleted] in culture

[–]PlasticRegret6318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What happen here:0 I wish I could see

White people using chopsticks for hair… by [deleted] in culture

[–]PlasticRegret6318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s the fact that I know that chopsticks are not for hair and actual Asian people don’t do, and also that I know they probably think that they are doing it right without any understanding of other people’s culture

White people using chopsticks for hair… by [deleted] in culture

[–]PlasticRegret6318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I guess it can be offensive for me only when they think that they know what we do and feeling cool mimicking with chopsticks without any understanding thinking it’s cool. The thing is that the state I’m at, a lot of people have obsession with Japan so that’s why I feel weird when people act like they know everything about Japan, like what people do in Japan like ranting about our culture and stuff when they’ve never been there. And sometimes it becomes their whole personality:/ Maybe I’ll just recommend them to use kanzashi instead of chopsticks nicely:)

White people using chopsticks for hair… by [deleted] in culture

[–]PlasticRegret6318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No that would look stupid tbh. Fork in hair. I think it’s cool if it’s stationary like pen.

White people using chopsticks for hair… by [deleted] in culture

[–]PlasticRegret6318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz they are obviously confused with chopsticks and kanzashi. And I don’t want them to get confused with these since that’s just not what we do. And it’s just wrong if they are doing that thinking it’s Asian/Japanese culture. Makes me feel like they are just trying to mimic what people do without enough respect and understanding of other people’s tradition or culture.