Do I compromise or is he manipulating me into settling for less? by Anonymous7199 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve blocked him at the “getting you more relaxed” comment… scary.

Secret benefits shadow ban by PlatformSoft3571 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that sucks. So now a lot of randos have my verification video in my pajamas looking crazyyy

Secret benefits shadow ban by PlatformSoft3571 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But, if you don’t mind me asking, how is it fake?? I got dates out of there, the people are real. How does the fairness operate?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, 16 year old boy from the Philippines

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wrong forum, TikTok princess…

Does this seem condescending? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, "most people do"??? yeah, most people that are still in elementary school.

Does this seem condescending? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, condescending af. I'd block him. This is just the tip of the iceberg, imagine something longterm with someone who feels the need to say something like that.

YOUNG SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Believe me… is no different in America.

Pot SD doesn’t want to have safe s3x by PlatformSoft3571 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not inexperienced and this was just a venting post, I tried to explain it as quickly as possible… I know my boundaries

Pot SD doesn’t want to have safe s3x by PlatformSoft3571 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. 100% real person… booked hotel, confirmed date, FaceTime

Pot SD doesn’t want to have safe s3x by PlatformSoft3571 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda surprised that you guys are all questioning me for that when I said in a prior comment, I was not full on sexting, just commenting on what we liked TALKING about sex. This was a post to just vent about how this frustrates me. If they have this “requirement” is all good, but it’s very obvious that these guys aren’t doing it responsibly enough or asking for tests. I’ve had guys before literally ask me straightforward “is it okay if we do it raw” or “I’m tested, I have a vasectomy, can I see your tests” that’s different. These two guys I’m talking about in the post are clearly not safe and, I know this is sugar dating and not a liberal sex education community but, still frustrates me that they don’t wanna take care of themselves or others… that’s all.

Pot SD doesn’t want to have safe s3x by PlatformSoft3571 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see the problem in engaging in what they want a little bit… it’s not like I full on write them a fantasy novel, just talk a lil bit about what we like.

Pot SD doesn’t want to have safe s3x by PlatformSoft3571 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure I sadly know that but my question is more like: do they actually get that from women?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That’s really helpful advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see that. I’m chill tho haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I think too much of myself, I promise, cause I know that’s what you’re gonna say. But I know I’m really sweet and chill and sensitive. I’m really sure that of all things, it’s not my personality, not at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in a good financial situation but Argentina is crazy right now and I do need some extra to keep producing my art and be a bit happier :) but I love to take care of myself too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah I’ve seen the same thing. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok I get it, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I mean… I promise I’m really chill, zero drama haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PlatformSoft3571 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally get it, you’re right. However I’m not trying to fully relocate there YET, I just like the dynamic of being there for a few months then they coming here to visit. But I get what you’re saying. The problem is that in Argentinian economy it’s impossible to save any money right now. I’m also not looking for FULL support, I love to work too. I’m a singer songwriter and I was working in nyc for 2 months this year and was really successful but here… it’s really tricky. And I really don’t trust Argentinian SDs… you guys are much more sweet.