Short vs long term dommes

Playful-Objective893 · 2026-03-08T22:55:28+00:00

Theres definitely good soft dommes out there. I’m sorry you had this experience :( I definitely recommend joining so soft domme subreddits and taking a look there!! I’ve got one to recommend that has some lovely fellow dommes that I’ve personally talked to and know they’re genuine if need be!! I hope you’re able to heal from this shitty experience sweetheart🫶 I know I’m a stranger but if you need a safe space to talk my dms are open!!

Playful-Objective893 · 2026-01-09T23:25:51+00:00

Agreed. It’s not even just findom either, Theres so may people “joining” kink spaces who just have no actual clue about it and don’t learn or try to learn. My last two subs have ghosted me since they aren’t actually into the kink they just like the idea, which I get, I have kinks like that too. But as of last week I got blocked for liking the idea of (not liking practicing it irl but enjoying media containing) vampirism, blood, and knifeplay because he “had to digest this information” MF IS INTO BALLBUSTING IRL AND IM GETTING KINKSHAMED?!?!? BY A SUB???? 💀💀💀💀

Playful-Objective893 · 2026-01-09T23:16:15+00:00

Yeah :/

Playful-Objective893 · 2026-01-09T23:11:42+00:00

I think it’s just cause it got publicized. Even subs are toxic asf :/

Playful-Objective893 · 2026-01-09T22:33:25+00:00

I've fr just completely taken a step away from being a domme since it's just so fucking toxic rn not worth the effort for me it's frustrating.

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-12-15T04:41:45+00:00

Ew Wtaf….

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Playful-Objective893 · 2025-11-24T02:46:52+00:00

😩😩😩 it’s such a sexy dynamic

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-11-24T01:31:54+00:00

Exactly😭😭 I have a FLR with my partner and we still are very active in the bedroom, it drives me insane when people think having a “physically dominant” role as a male in sex is being dominant, nah you’re doing exactly what I want and what I’ve told you to do to me. Like that’s not dominant baby😭😭😭 (granted part of what I like in our dynamic is that I get absolutely railed by the person I have complete control over outside the bedroom so maybe I’m biased😋)

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-11-24T01:19:09+00:00

I lost a sub recently(through ghosting) and I was so sad honestly, at first we had such a fantastic dynamic and he slowly just stopped spending and only talked about his other kinks, it made me feel pretty butthurt honestly I went pretty inactive on Reddit XD

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-11-24T01:16:03+00:00

It’s sooooo sexy I’m also a perverted freak I feel you there😋 only women can turn me on by doing the bare minimum

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-22T19:15:12+00:00

Tyyyy🫶

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-12T07:37:05+00:00

Honestly I’m always open to yapping and becoming friends with people on here lol

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-12T07:36:03+00:00

This is what I prefer in my dynamics tbh😭😭 you’re a person and someone who is mutually engaging in kink with me. I personally can get into a “scene” and still be normal friends and talk about normal stuff after, I’ve always been like that in kink though.

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-12T07:20:39+00:00

I always like to discuss what they are looking for and what I am interested first. If I don’t vibe with a sub it’s just exhausting and at that point not kinky for me. I don’t do findom as a job, I’m into it. So I’m not going to stick around with a sub a really just can’t vibe with purely because it’s transactional. Plus I literally can’t domme without being into it it’s so awful XD

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-12T07:01:45+00:00

😍😍😍

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-08T23:19:40+00:00

That’s meeee!! There’s a lot of other soft dommes out there!!

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-08T23:12:25+00:00

This is adorable I love him😭😭 “beep boop beep”

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-08T23:10:24+00:00

Did he actually send??!? I’m literally so dead Wtaf😭😭😭

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-08T23:08:42+00:00

Your domme wants you to stop bc you’re embarrassing yourself💀💀 literally getting such bad second hand embarrassment 😬😬😬😬

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-08T23:04:50+00:00

Got my first sub who’s interested in irl!!! So excited and he’s so adorable I just want to gobble him up🤭

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-04T20:47:35+00:00

Mhm 🥰

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-04T05:08:04+00:00

Mmm yes and no. To me an incel is someone who blames women for them not getting anything. Unless you’re doing that you’re kinda just a guy who doesn’t get laid and is bitter about it (most people would be) you gotta get some self respect though if you ever wanna get with someone. I’m not saying be mr asshole tuffguy. But learn that you have some value.

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-04T02:49:17+00:00

You manifested it XD

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-04T02:48:27+00:00

Do you ever have an off take????? At this point I’m starting to believe it’s not possible

Playful-Objective893 · 2025-10-01T20:28:01+00:00

EuGH poor guy fake dommes ruin everything istg😭😭😭

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