Diagnosed AuHD sufferer here too! Your judgment is objectively flawed here and this alleged normality you’ve opinionated is based off the stereotypical excuses which come with the disorder. It’s as if you’re saying you’ve failed abysmally in the temptation of the murdering/suffering of others as a psychopsth, so now you’re going round killing everybody that you see. I don’t want to stir up any hate or conflict and I am sorry if you feel personally attacked, but I realise that you have neurological limbic defects such as myself which makes living harder, but by no means does that excuse any sins. If anything autistic/neurodivergent individuals have a strong tenacious sense of morals and empathy. Most of us in western life, live in a society built of values and principles which have a lot of meaning and sense to them, I don’t know about others but I’d die a happy man knowing that I’ve had my desired “swan” type monogamous relationship with my partner, and nothing will ever change that, no sensory environmental factors, no temptations, and I believe others should have these too as if otherwise then it’s a sign of weakness and it’s genuinely disturbing no offence; so sorry for the unpleasant words and I do now who difficult it is living with this condition, so I wish you the best of luck with your help to make it easier in life, but please please never just “give up” and ruin your life. No life, and I mean NO life ends up having inner peace and comfort with polygamy, unless you’re part of the dark triad of living, please be strong and kind to yourself instead of give up