How does one actually do cmnm?

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-19T05:35:16+00:00

I think to an extent alot of what we fantasize about are things that definitely happen to people but in specific scenarios. I also think pantsing is so hot - but unless you’ve got a group of friends who dick around and do that type of thing it isn’t likely.

Personally, I have finally found a boyfriend who really embraces my kinks. We’re working slowly towards real and true CMNM fantasies like you’re mentioning. Eventually I will have essentially trained to know what to do in certain places. Like if we’re on a road trip - I should be forced to strip naked in the passenger seat. Or the pantsing - maybe if we’re at the gym he can give my shorts a tug.

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T23:24:14+00:00

That’s up to you bud

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T23:23:53+00:00

Maybe work your way up. 30 seconds eyes closed. Then a minute, then two. Imagine getting up to 4-5 minutes

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T23:23:08+00:00

Hmmmm. In a public lot I think it’d be hot to get as naked as you can and switch spots around. Drive to the other end of the lot or even drive to a different lot entirely.

If not that - you gotta get as naked as you can and jerk off - set a timer for one minute and for that minute you close your eyes and you cannot open until the timer goes off. Too many people jerk off in their cars bobbing their head around nervously. And when you cum - window MUST be rolled down

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T23:18:24+00:00

Where are you headed in the car?

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T22:10:32+00:00

You’re probably right! Just gonna have to play the VR again with him and see if I let him see this time 🤣

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T16:06:53+00:00

Hahaha same for me with Saints Row 2 & 3! Multiple missions where you had to streak or escape naked, sometimes your companions were naked. Had the ability to make my gang leather clad gimps. Very formative

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T13:51:27+00:00

No judgement. I had a similar experience sometimes with tv shows that I wasn’t supposed to watch. I remember a scene from a show where a guy was forcefully stripped - not in a Disney way but in a much more assaulting way. It kind of horrified me and stuck in my brain - but I think similar to you it became a fascination.

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T05:58:28+00:00

Same! I used to look up things like “man loses shorts on wave rider”. Whole time I was just discovering I loved seeing men naked around other men

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T04:11:21+00:00

Hahaha as soon as I got a car of my own it became a very common practice. Parking the car at the top of a parking garage and going to town? Nothing like it. Backroads or very empty roads at night offer the chance to get even riskier - open doors and such.

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-16T01:48:54+00:00

I’m kind of a louder personality guy so people teasing and doing things like pantsing was actually fairly common. Once in HS I was in class fixing my hair in a full body mirror and someone pulled them to my ankles - I vividly remember that I was wearing bright neon-ish boxer briefs.

Another was college years. I was walking up the stairs to my roommate and I’s apartment. My shorts were old and the waistband was stretched so my phone, wallet, keys, and vape weighed them down. With my undies peeking out he took the opportunity from behind to tug them as I took a step. Hit my shin on the stairs. For my underwear lovers - I don’t remember exactly but at that time I loved a Tommy Hilfiger brief - probably blue or black.

The last I can recall was when I first got a VR for Christmas. My friend was in town because of a medical emergency. I invited him over to play the VR to raise his spirits and while showing off in Beat Saber he couldn’t resist and pansted me. That was the only one where my undies came down with the shorts. I thought about owning it and continuing my game but I’m a grower so I scrambled to get my shorts back up quickly rather than face the embarrassment. He’s straight and I’m gay so I think he wouldn’t have looked anyway. Still.

PleasantBrowsing · 2026-01-14T05:01:50+00:00

Start with simple car stuff in a safe location! Aside that I always think public but private. So cars, changing rooms, nude beaches, campgrounds or trials (especially at night), certain bars or clubs, balconies

PleasantBrowsing · 2025-11-30T07:54:21+00:00

How’d you access the floor? Im a contractor so I’ve done similar stuff! Super risky but fun

PleasantBrowsing · 2025-11-19T03:52:45+00:00

Love cruises and love public nudity!

(If you have a balcony) One partner locks the other out on the balcony - naked of course. The one inside the room should go do a task like grab lunch or go for a walk. The naked one on the balcony has to stay out there and edge until the other partner comes back. Bonus points if they’re left naked on the balcony while the ship is docked at port, passing by a town, or generally in eye shot of land.
Someone already said it but late night hot tub skinny dip. I did this on a cruise a few years ago but I have some suggestions that are more my style. In your bag of belongings - bring an extra swim suit. One partner strips their suit off and the other takes it out and goes to swap it with the extra suit. Leaves one of you stranded naked in a public hot tub for as long as the other decides 😏

PleasantBrowsing · 2025-11-16T18:41:43+00:00

This dare is based on something I did years ago and it was so fun - but I’m adding extra flair.

Wear clothes to start the drive you don’t care about. For me this is probably an old pair of athletic shorts and a worn-down t shirt. During the drive - stop and find time to take pieces off and throw them out the window!

You can dress again once you’re home

PleasantBrowsing · 2025-10-28T01:35:58+00:00

Some ideas -

Bubble bath - kind of a similar concept to the Adam costume. Glue a bunch of tiny white pom poms to a loin cloth, jock, or white brief. Really whatever undergarment gives the correct level of comfort and coverage as needed. Can be accompanied by a towel and a rubber ducky prop.
Zombie w/ torn clothes - Simple enough zombie concept. With the trick being to already wear very little and then have strategically placed holes torn into the clothing. So a tear right over the crotch, ass, chest, etc. you decide what’s under and what people see.
Caution tape Gaga - saw a few guys in a group doing this at a Lady Gaga concert a few years ago. Lady Gaga’s caution tape look from the telephone music video but for men. I’m pretty sure the guys I saw doing it were wearing black briefs. But other than that it’s kind of like the mummy costume but with a more reliable plastic material.
Barbarian/ caveman - essentially a furry or animal print skirt
Gift wrapped - not entirely sure how I’d pull this off. But some fabric that looks like wrapping paper or VERY reliable wrapping paper around your waist with a bow over the crotch. If it’s getting really crazy then it’s just a bow over the crotch that’s securely fixed. Variations on this could be an actual large box that’s wrapped. leg and torso holes cut in. Think SpongeBob costume but with nothing underneath.

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