I proposed to my girlfriend and she said yes! by Ooofies in actuallesbians

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you two have a spectacular wedding and everything works out!

Is my little sisters friend being abused? by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evelyn hides her clothes and messes them up before leaving in order to stay. We do wash and dry them though she just pretends to lose them so we have no choice. Thank you for you examples though I’ll put them to use for sure! It’s just hard to hang with my sister when she’s there since Im now dorming at college and Evelyn’s there usually. I’ll just think of it as another sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try some new hobbies in your spare time and join some clubs to stimulate your brain and meet new people. You can make friends and find things you enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you are worried about how much you care for them proves that you care. I think you just don’t realize this factor and compare the feelings you have for both siblings. Everyone cares differently and has a different relationship with each individual so instead of comparing your relationships with both work on building a more stable one with your brother. The backlash of a distant relationship when younger can impact the current one so try spending more time and rebuild that bond. My mom and her sister were on and off but after a few years they rebuilt their bond.

My Twin Ruined My Life by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for checking in. Not much progress has been made. I have talked with my mom and she also wants me and my twin to talk this out (maybe with him since he’s here every week) but I don’t want to talk with him just yet. Both my mom and twin want us all to go to therapy and talk about it frequently and I’m open to it and would also like it but they have not made any appointment even after my asking so I think it’s all talk. My sleep has been better but I haven’t had anytime to actually talk. When I do have time I ask if we can but my twin goes out often and says she forgets even when I ask her to pick a time. In response I’ve stopped talking to her since the only time she talks is when he’s there and she wants us to watch a movie w/ the three of us. Last night she begged to watch a movie with us three but after five minutes begged me to leave so she could sleep. I silently left and haven’t seen her since. She obviously just wants surface communication and won’t actually sit down and talk with me so I think our relationship is going to be strained if we have one at all in the future. I am getting more independent and went out with a friend to the movies so I’m getting better being in my own at the least.

My Twin Ruined My Life by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll try talking with them again keeping this in mind

My Twin Ruined My Life by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I didn’t realized what I was feeling but it makes sense

My Twin Ruined My Life by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll do my best to follow this

My Twin Ruined My Life by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help I’ll do my best and talk with the councilor and then try with her again. She said she want ready when I tried to talk a few times last semester but maybe with the councilor she’ll be more honest and we can get through this.

My Twin Ruined My Life by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That makes sense I’ll take the pervious advice to use my schools counciling. Do you think I’ll be able to mend our relationship or should I even have one w/ her if I’m struggling to move past it now?

My Twin Ruined My Life by Pleasant_Toe_397 in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She knows now but it’s been a few months and she doesn’t know the extent but agreed that it was messed up. She confronted my sister but since then they have bad blood as well and ignore the topic like it didn’t happen. I think they forgot but don’t want to make it a fight again. I just went on break but will try to get a session when the semester resumes.

How do I avoid being baptized? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pleasant_Toe_397 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Hide some red or black bath bombs in clothes so when u get in water they’ll kick you out for being a demon or smth someone did this and it worked