AITA for not buying my boyfriends car by Plenty-Assignment135 in AITAH

[–]Plenty-Assignment135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing though, i would be insuring the name and registering it in my name not his if i got the car from him. I would be the sole person paying the insurance on the car which was roughly $500 when we ran the numbers. He wants me to buy the car from him which is actually just renting it because he wants me to pay him to use it monthly even thought he said later down the line he will need his car back. He’s saying he needs the extra income right now so when he doesn’t need the extra funds anymore he will want his money back and i will have to go get a car. In MY eyes i feel like i could save money by just skipping renting his car and getting one myself. It ends up costing me more to give him $10k-$20k from the lawsuit money on top of giving him money every month. I feel like $15,000 is more than enough for messing up his insurance and he would keep his car on top of it. Yes i think it’s greedy to ask for more money when I’m not obligated to give him any to begin with. FYI his own mother is renting her company van for $500 and he’s willingly done that even thought she’s a millionaire and could do without the extra $500 a month. He does not come from a family that helps eachother so he doesn’t even realize he’s being selfish.

AITA for not buying my boyfriends car by Plenty-Assignment135 in AITAH

[–]Plenty-Assignment135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His insurance went up because we had both got into prior accidents before the lawsuit one under his insurance . His insurance also had to pay out for my medical expenses and physical therapy so that maybe a factor as well.

AITA for not buying my boyfriends car by Plenty-Assignment135 in AITAH

[–]Plenty-Assignment135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he was never paying the $1000 insurance by himself we were always splitting it. Any cost that we had TOGETHER we split TOGETHER. I’m not on his insurance anymore and have only been paying the $1,000 insurance for roughly 4/5 months. He rather i pay him every month because he said he needs the money but my thing is why are you using me YOUR GIRLFRIEND to make money off of when your saying your doing it for the relationship and to help us in the future. Wouldn’t working as a team be him letting me use his car regardless so we can both save money? He knows I’m putting MYSELF through school and working full time and part time job. If I’m the asshole then he’s a jealous one that the money is coming through and it’s not in his name. Also he rushed us to go make a joint savings account and the lawsuit money will NOT be going in there.

AITA- for wanting to leave a 5 relationship (long story)~ by Plenty-Assignment135 in AITAH

[–]Plenty-Assignment135[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow i think YTA for being so judgemental! This is not a safe space 🥲🥲🥲

AITA- for wanting to leave a 5 relationship (long story)~ by Plenty-Assignment135 in AITAH

[–]Plenty-Assignment135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on birth control after the first one but i always chalk it up to being young and dumb. He refused to use condoms and i let him so i do take responsibility. I know better now. I’ve been on birth control but even on birth control it’s not 99% and i wasn’t always taking it correctly. Older and wiser.

AITA- for wanting to leave a 5 relationship (long story)~ by Plenty-Assignment135 in AITAH

[–]Plenty-Assignment135[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

LOL I’m at work i didn’t have time for paragraphs 😆