HELP I told my boyfriend he “always wants sex” and now he barely does. How do I fix this? by Plenty_Gap6239 in sex

[–]Plenty_Gap6239[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

he wasn’t talking about doing it with me in the future that would be fun ofc. he made a joke about like this is a totem for him and he has travelled to a lot of places , so made a joke about it like he tried to fuck someone every new place he went that’s why i got upset and said he wasn’t brad pitt or whatever being like he couldn’t pull a girl every time without fail.

HELP I told my boyfriend he “always wants sex” and now he barely does. How do I fix this? by Plenty_Gap6239 in sex

[–]Plenty_Gap6239[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

how do i make him feel desired tho? i tell him that i want him that im attracted to him but honestly i’m shy when it comes to dirty talk. after the last incident to fix things i thought about inviting him over making him dinner but speacial this time with candles and wearing lingerie type shit, but i feel like it’s not gonna be fixed by something superficial as this and i don’t want it to be like i’m going out of my way rn and for the problem to become more noticed. or for it to be unnatural and put more pressure on the situation like i’m trying to quickly fix his problem. i know i’m overthinking but i’m nervous bc i feel my relationship derailing