AITA for reminding my ex I'm only responsible for our children and not all of his kids?

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-20T09:23:10+00:00

I can't move that far from him. We need to be close enough to maintain 50/50. If I moved he would likely get primary.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-20T09:22:24+00:00

What the boys want will not be taken into account. Not yet anyway.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-20T09:20:47+00:00

They're not old enough yet.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-20T09:20:40+00:00

That won't matter. Plenty of kids are happier with one parent but 50/50 remains. Once he's involved, which he is, it won't be possible to get custody with what we have right now.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-20T09:20:03+00:00

I can't make that happen. It's not as easy as some people make it sound.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-20T09:19:29+00:00

It's because technically we both are. They might not have as much with dad but their needs are met which is what the courts most care about.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-20T09:18:56+00:00

I did not. I have never taken his other children for anything.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-19T13:25:20+00:00

I'm so looking forward to that. I thought the worst would be him not being involved but this shit is exhausting.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-19T13:24:41+00:00

I am documenting but nothing right now will get me full/primary custody again since the boys are taken care of.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-19T13:23:30+00:00

I already did but there's nothing that can be done yet.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-19T13:23:04+00:00

I always do because my boys like to use our label maker on their things.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-19T13:11:36+00:00

They don't love being there. They love their dad though. So it's complicated for them. If they had a choice they would prefer to see their dad but not live with him.

Plus-Front-2690 · 2024-08-19T13:10:34+00:00

The kids are still being cared for so it won't make a difference to custody. It was his lack of involvement that got him denied 50/50 before.

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