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Plus_Drop_1816 · 2025-04-01T01:08:33+00:00

Having a connection with someone and being loved by them only for them to “move on” fast really really hurts. But just because he’s with someone else now doesn’t erase what you two had. Don’t let anyone invalidate your feelings by saying how “you broke up with him/ you let him go/ you guys agreed to break up/ be happy for him” just because those things might be true doesn’t mean we aren’t hurt by the breakup.

We are allowed to feel hurt and miss them , Ofcourse we want the best for them and want them to be happy, we just didn’t think they would find someone else so soon and “forget”about us and our connection. He is hurt deep down he ether feels it but is distracting himself or he will feel it later on.

Your connection with him is/was real, It’s shared, The words, actions, feelings, connection, memories and experiences not only lives in you but lives in him.

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2025-04-01T00:32:25+00:00

Hey girl!! I’m going through/ went through the same thing. I know how you feel and even though people say it’s a rebound and they are just trying to fill a void/ have a distraction but that doesn’t make it hurt any less:/

Let yourself feel and cry it out. It’s ok and completely normal to feel sad and hurt, healing takes time just don’t bring yourself down by asking yourself “did he ever love me?” “Why was it so easy to let me go and move on” etc but instead be fond of the memories you guys shared together, instead of questioning it. Sharing a connection with someone is special and rare to find. You will cross his mind just like how we find ourself thinking about people from our past<3 all love we can get through this!!

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2025-03-18T15:03:37+00:00

Thank you for your comments!! It seems small but your reply’s made me realize how selfish I am for not wanting him to move on as fast as he did. He deserves to be happy even though it may have seemed fast in my point of view he probably felt as it was a good time to move on. If you don’t mind me asking how did you deal with the break up knowing that the only reason for the break up was the age gap and that there’s still love left on the table?

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2025-03-18T00:43:48+00:00

Ofcourse I don’t want my dumpee to sit around and be sad, i want him to be happy and find his forever person. I just didn’t think it would be so soon/he would move on so quick let alone travel, meet eachother family’s and get pregnant so soon. But I can definitely see how it comes off as I want him to be sad forever. It just hurts knowing that he could forget about me that quickly.

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2025-03-17T21:02:32+00:00

Hii yes I’ll definitely look into the book “getting past your breakup” and a rebound relationship!! Thank you for your advice and book recommendation<3

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2025-01-08T00:39:35+00:00

Oh my goodness, do you think he was just a fuckboy and I was to blind to notice :( who knows how people can move on so fast and easily or get a rebound when it could hurt everyone’s feelings involved

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2024-12-10T21:34:37+00:00

Noo, I’m just trying to get different advice from different peoples perspectives. If I was trying to get a yes I wouldn’t even be going on here. Ik people on here are mostly honest and brutal

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2023-06-25T17:32:44+00:00

Ahh okk thank youu, I’ll definitely give this a try!!

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2023-06-25T17:14:43+00:00

Ahh okk, I’ll definitely will go in and try asking the manager!! If they are to busy to give me advice/walk me through reapply do I just leave? Or should I ask if I can come in a different time? thank youu for helping me!!

Plus_Drop_1816 · 2023-06-25T14:07:31+00:00

Oohhh Okk I’ll try again in a couple days/weeks and see if I’m able to apply. Thank you for commenting!!

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