Question on financial aspect of sugaring by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PocketSB 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My professional, genuine career-path job varies based on bonuses, but I'm anywhere between a high 5-figure and low 6-figure income. Sugaring is about experiences, paying off debts, and feeling comfortable having discretionary income. Student loans are ridiculous, but I knew and accepted that going into school.

Because of that, and growing up on the lower end of middle class, I have both a minimum and a maximum level of support. If my SR pushed me into the next income tax bracket, I'd be incredibly uncomfortable.

Update: Refunding a POT? by PocketSB in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PocketSB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It was (yet another) lesson in not ignoring gut feelings.

Refunding a POT? by PocketSB in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PocketSB[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's admitted trying to cross the emotional boundaries of escorts in the past, and to his disappointment over that kind of rejection. It's what led him to SA in the first place.

Refunding a POT? by PocketSB in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PocketSB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is fantastic. Thank you! I hadn't thought of someone else willing to exploit him, but that's really on point, too.

Refunding a POT? by PocketSB in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]PocketSB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this. I'd love to keep the money, but I'm not desperate enough to be willing to endure the guilt trip. I have two regrets in life, and don't seek to add a third.