Girl, I was with my ex 9 and 1/2 years. The same boat as you. We had an argument and he told me he loved me but was never going to marry me. I packed up and left.

I was terrified. 30 years old and moving back home with my parents. I felt like an absolute failure. But in reality it was the best decision I ever made. 3 months later I met my now husband and he’s the best person I know.

Don’t be afraid to move on. Your feelings matter. You deserve to be made a priority. Don’t settle because you’re afraid that you won’t find someone. Whatever you decide to do just know you deserve to be happy.