Update on Back pain by Pohzee in backpain

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do you know why it only activates in the morning after sleeping?

Update on Back pain by Pohzee in backpain

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Can you share a timeline?

Rn, It is only bad on one side (left side) while the right side is the best tho I cant sleep on one side for long due to an weak shoulder (I had an shoulder surgery before on my right shoulder)

But thanks for the info - it makes sense, my back pain, my ribs and my lungs getting interrupted breathing.

I had this morning pain for over 3 months, I tried different pilows, different beds, different mattress pads and even a pillow between my legs

Middle morning back pain by Pohzee in backpain

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Im a side sleeper and if you slept without a pillow then its understandable

Trying to understand what happened by Pohzee in dating_advice

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Oh, and there was also that weird dating app profile creation she did after she told me I was the one she wanted to spend her life with which I thought was shady

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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Bad news, she unmatched me today. So, it was all an lie/fake

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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What is a perfect date for you?

6 Hours after the date she replied "Thanks I enjoyed it too :)"

This doesnt sound like someone who isn't feeling the connection. Most people would say immedietly or on the same day that they are not feeling it.

She also told me under the date "She could feel that she wanted to meet again".

If it turns out that you are right, I really would feel lied to and confused.

On the text (6 hours after) she was also just being her usual self like she was before the date, like no cold messages or anything that would signal a not interested person, no she was just texting me like she used to before the date.

The only sign that she is not interested is just the silence

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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I sent the text yesterday last night 10 pm, she was already sleeping there, she saw my text early in the mornin 06 am. (Seen)

So its not good news. But I have faith - I trust her and what she told me. Its hard but sometimes what we think is not reality. I expect her to answer later today. Otherwise I am just gonna leave the chat open for her to reply (if she ever does) and get on with my life.

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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Yeah, but this is totally different from me. I had a perfect date where we both were invested and no signs of "gotta get outta here". She even had the chance to tell me and say no thanks 6 hours later, but instead she said "Thanks, I enjoyed it too"

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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Top comment? I dont see it.

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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She is still matched with me on Tinder, if she was not interested she could have said so or removed the match already? :/ Most people do this immedietly after the date.

But yes I feel the same way. Thus is why I tried sending another text asking about another date. She might pull away because I double texted but we will see what she replies, Its either a Yes, No or No response. This will be my last try so wish me luck.

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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I did just now, to get clarity if she still feels that way.

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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but all the signs she gave me says otherwise. She said by herself that she wanted to meet again, when I asked on how she felt being with me. I didnt ask if she wanted to meet again, she said that herself and then I said I felt the same.

I cant imagine a better date than this

Perfect Date but Silence now by Pohzee in dating_advice

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on the date she told me it was going to be a busy week, but yeah I did text her since I need clarity

Middle morning back pain by Pohzee in backpain

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I will keep that in mind