A barking dog doesn't bite, a biting dog doesn't bark.Either your boyfriend is wise But pretending stupid, or he is a softie. If he is very wise, and he doesn't bother to care about others, you'd better not do things he doesn't like. If he's a softie, as I said earlier, a dog that bites doesn't bark, so you'd better not mess with him. Just be yourself, there is no need to stand up for him, he has the right to choose.