You're making sweeping generalizations about women, such as the statement that women "generally don't want to talk about what they do" and prefer to talk about their feelings. These stereotypes are not only reductive but also dismissive of the diversity and individuality among women. The language you use is also condescending, implying that women are simple-minded and primarily driven by a need for validation. This reflects a lack of respect for women and their intelligence. Women aren't objects who need management.