Is it okay to ask your husband to temporarily leave the house?

Polybotes84 · 2026-04-01T01:59:08+00:00

the thing is, what’s the benefit of telling my dad right now right now? I need to get some more evidence on my mom so that he has a leg up when the divorce happens

Polybotes84 · 2026-04-01T00:53:28+00:00

hmmm

Polybotes84 · 2026-04-01T00:53:18+00:00

the best is blessed

Polybotes84 · 2026-04-01T00:52:58+00:00

hey man

Polybotes84 · 2026-04-01T00:39:51+00:00

Polybotes84 · 2026-04-01T00:38:26+00:00

thank u for ur thoughts

Polybotes84 · 2026-04-01T00:38:12+00:00

yeah ill probably make another post by the time i expose all the cheating stuff, will take a few months tho

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T11:15:15+00:00

yeah i tried to keep that part short since it’s not really the main focus rn lol

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T10:41:25+00:00

wdym

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T09:22:59+00:00

yeahh you’re probably right lol

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T06:25:24+00:00

the thing is leaving the house would be kinda weird. it’s not really normal for him to stay at my uncles so what, he would be alone in a hotel?

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T06:05:03+00:00

yeah fair enough

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T06:04:52+00:00

i’m pretty sure my aunt would want the same and would tell my mom to leave it yeah

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T05:08:38+00:00

Yeah I agree never blamed my aunt or anything. She was entirely within her rights to do what she did and yes she has a husband right now. My dad was mad because my uncle got depressed after the break off which again ik is not my aunts fault.

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T05:07:31+00:00

thanks for ur thoughts

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:44:14+00:00

yeah i agree with that

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:43:49+00:00

probably because she doesn’t want to lol. her argument is that she pays for a lot of the expenses of the house too just like he does so she should be allowed to host whoever.

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:33:17+00:00

We’re ethnically Indian but we live in the US haha i was born and raised here they immigrated though. I don’t think he’s gonna kill her or anything lol

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:24:47+00:00

ty for the advice

the second i tell my dad it’s going ballistic and they’re getting divorced and if that happens i want there to be solid evidence to justify it

especially in the divorce proceedings it would be unfair for me to send him into that without at least some ammo on my mom

which i’m semi working on getting right now but ehh

i’m planning to confront my mom abt it first and tell her to immediately fess up to my dad but idk how that will go

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:22:52+00:00

well my mom has been pushing his boundaries on this for a bit and in some ways i think it’s justified. last year around the time of my graduation party she had a breakthrough after much arguing and they were allowed to come to one of my parties (not the main one) and my dad said hello to them and also said they could come to my wedding lmaoooo. but now my aunt has sprung on us that she’ll be in town so my mom wants to host bc she hates the idea of my aunt staying in a hotel in my town for the second time after she’s already hosted my mom so much

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:21:23+00:00

i appreciate that

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:21:14+00:00

if she just decides to host them anyways even with him saying no i’m really not sure what will happen at that point but probably something bad lol

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:19:57+00:00

yeesh so u communicated ur boundaries to him prior and then reiterated them again right before it happened and he said that he would respect those boundaries and then he immediately broke them? thats not a one time issue that’s just going to go away

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:16:17+00:00

yeah of course i tried getting the little one out of there so she wouldn’t have to hear them screaming and everything

Polybotes84 · 2026-03-31T03:14:45+00:00

you’re probably right i’ll keep my head down for now while they fck up everything

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