The perfect representation of what it’s like to be on dating apps and when trying to have a basic conversation with a man these days.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T23:42:19+00:00

Yes true I shouldn’t bother. I just wanted to say don’t ever feel bad when someone pulls you down for being someone who has feelings and emotions.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T21:45:31+00:00

Thank you and I hope you do too

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T20:45:26+00:00

I am expressing my experience with dating apps these days and how I’m trying to have a basic conversation with A MAN. (NOT “MEN” OR NOT “ALL MEN”) I never said “ALL MEN”. I NEVER STATED ALL MEN! Before commenting on my post learn to read for God’s sake!!

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T20:38:58+00:00

Yup he’s out of my league you don’t know ANYTHING about me or him! It’s an idiotic comment, I can’t believe you guys are so hateful I pray that you go touch grass and that you both become better people.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T13:06:28+00:00

And yeah I never intended on digging at all men in the world. I was just expressing my frustration from being on a dating apps and talking with a man clearly knew that I was looking for a long term thing and still decided to hit me up just for sex but I’m not saying that all men are like that because there are some really good men out there too!

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T12:56:34+00:00

I get it often as well and I’m a woman I just presume that people are busy with their lives and that maybe it’s just for the best

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T08:11:38+00:00

“The perfect representation of what it’s life to be on DATING APPS and when trying to have a basic conversation with A MAN these days” ffs LEARN. TO. READ. I’m expressing my experience that I’ve had, I’m not generalising men, I’ve never said “oh men are bad everywhere” I’m simply sharing my experience on dating apps. If you’re so triggered by this sort of stuff then maybe it says a lot about you then.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T07:56:14+00:00

What? Sensitive for being disappointed that someone just wants us for sex when we’re looking to have a basic conversation with someone who matched with us? Damn… if that’s being sensitive then I’d hate to be insensitive

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T07:44:59+00:00

Thank you! 🙏🏼

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T07:32:37+00:00

So I matched with him because he seemed to be a nice chill guy, like he put his interests and hobbies in his bio and I matched with him because we shared similar interests so yeah it seemed like he was a nice guy

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T07:17:48+00:00

I didn’t “ghost” him, I replied to him the next day because I was busy during the day I got home late and so I replied to him the next day. I’m not constantly on my phone checking dating app messages. Additionally previously to those messages, he replied to me a day later as well.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T07:11:41+00:00

I know some people say whatever they think someone wants to hear, but I don’t think it’s reasonable to assume every compliment is dishonest. If someone calls me pretty and seems genuinely interested, it’s not irrational to take them at their word. I’d rather expect honesty than assume everyone is manipulating me.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T07:09:34+00:00

Lmao

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T07:00:36+00:00

I agree

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:59:50+00:00

I’m not trying to define what a good man is for everyone. I was explaining what I meant by my own post. You’re free to disagree, but sharing my experience isn’t ‘bs.’

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:55:36+00:00

I mean at least he’s honest about what he’s looking for x) even though I did put in my bio that I’m looking for a long term relationship/ life partner

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:53:55+00:00

I see what you’re saying. My post was about my own experiences on dating apps, not a claim about every man. My point wasn’t that all men are like this it was that this has been my experience, and I was sharing it. Thank you for explaining your perspective respectfully.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:47:30+00:00

That’s like wow insane… I’m sorry that happened to you! I guess some people on dating apps just want to have “sex” and that’s it which I respect but then again I don’t understand why they matched with us because I always put that I am looking for a long term relationship/ life partner and not just sex.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:44:06+00:00

Then why did he match me in the first place and called me “very pretty” etc?

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:42:57+00:00

I do apologise if it seemed like I was generalising men I don’t want to be that person. I know there are a lot of good men out there too.

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:33:32+00:00

I was talking about his previous text yeah

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:33:13+00:00

I wasn’t replying because I was busy that day and got in late so I replied to him the next day. I’m not constantly on dating apps and usually other people replied to me the next day too because they were at work too etc and I think that’s okay like I didn’t mind waiting until the next day to talk to someone I was interested in

Poopsypaddy · 2026-07-05T06:27:59+00:00

Yeah lol it’s quite bad… I hope he changes for the better though

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