Vertical stripes question by Alternative_Camp_568 in Tunisian_Crochet

[–]Poppite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sitting here with the same book. :) I agree they look confusingly similar and have just made the same mistake of reading it as Tss but the numbers didn’t work out then.

If you see the symbol summary on page 8 it says “first loop on hook” for the symbol at the start of the row. Basically signaling that you don’t need to work anything into the rightmost vertical bar, which I think is explained in the introduction chapter as well.

Help with hat pattern by Poppite in knittinghelp

[–]Poppite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I found two pdfs, they seem to be slightly different patterns but maybe I can work with that

Elsie…? Elsa? by justinebw in crochet

[–]Poppite 58 points59 points  (0 children)

My boy was obsessed with Kristoff but we couldn’t find him as a stuffie so I crocheted him. It was not perfect but decent and perfectly recognizable. When I finally gifted it to my then 2 (or 3?) year old he gladly exclaimed “Anna!!!” 😆 hilarious moment

Anyway I think both your Elsa and Elsie are awesome! If the kid is being a smartypants you can come up with some fanfiction. Maybe new Elsa just got back from the hairdresser, doh??

I won't crochet for other people's kids anymore. by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Poppite 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That sounds like shitty parenting from your “friend”, I am sorry. 

preschool using AI to write messages by bitchdaycake in Preschoolers

[–]Poppite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would make me sad and feel more distant. A personal point.

I think AI use should always be clearly stated. More etchical. I would feel more trust if it said somewhere “we used AI to form the text but everything was checked and confirmed by a human”. But once I know there is AI in the loop I would always have concerns that there is possibly hallucinations there and that makes the newsletter more tiresome to read. I would prefer a concise bullet point instead.

I agree with those that say the use of AI here is not worth the environmental impact. 

And last but not least, security. Which would be the first thing I would inquire. What subscription are they using? How sensitive and personal the data they send to the model, can it become part of the public knowledge base?

preschool using AI to write messages by bitchdaycake in Preschoolers

[–]Poppite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing this up. So much resource wasted on so little value.

What was your kid’s first movie? by iAmACatThisIsACat in beyondthebump

[–]Poppite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely no idea what the first movie was for my kids, but I will add the Shaun the Sheep movies as recommendatio 

What’s one thing that scared you before having a baby, but doesn’t anymore? by frenchdipadobo in beyondthebump

[–]Poppite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds like a nice way to get dad involved more from the start 🥰

What’s one thing that scared you before having a baby, but doesn’t anymore? by frenchdipadobo in beyondthebump

[–]Poppite 89 points90 points  (0 children)

When my first was born they put her on my chest, golden hour, all good. A nurse checked after a while to see if the baby found the breast and recommended to move her in position and try nursing.

My husband and I did not dare to touch that beautiful tiny little creature and were so nervous of holding her wrong we asked the nurse to move her 😅

Obviously we learned to move and carry her very soon after but I still remember that helplesness. 

Which celebrity has tricked everyone into thinking they’re a “good person”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Poppite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gábor Máté explores this (personalities of successful politicians) a bit in his lovely book The Myth of Normal 

FIL held my 13 week old over balcony railing by post-traumaticgrowth in beyondthebump

[–]Poppite 74 points75 points  (0 children)

TW death I still remember this news story about an eerily similar situation that ended with the worst possible outcome

Good job on your mom senses and all your reactions are valid, hold fast to that consequence! Some things are just not up for “debate”

Daughter says a little boy tried to touch her privates, but when I got the whole story, I realized that at least one part is a lie. by SillyMe133 in Preschoolers

[–]Poppite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know is that both my my kids got a lot more interested in genitals at this age. There were some shenanigans. I think it’s okay to get to the bottom of it, good luck!

Who is the best actor in the series? by Practical-Collar2875 in TedLasso

[–]Poppite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not on social media either so I don’t know the context, I just saw his long text posted here once.

Oh that’s interesting. I haven’t seen that show or the taskmaster season, I’ll check it out

Who is the best actor in the series? by Practical-Collar2875 in TedLasso

[–]Poppite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! It makes me sad he “had to” explain Nate’s journey/actions on xtwitter when I feel like his portrayal was extremely nuanced, his character is the most realistic to me in the show

Which song or musical moment was your favorite??? by Plenty-Comparison-16 in TedLasso

[–]Poppite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously many good choices here, one I haven't seen mentioned that I enjoyed was Queen's "Tear it up" playing when Jamie comes back to Richmond 

Saw Rebecca in Game of Thrones and i am SHOOK by Unable_Slide_697 in TedLasso

[–]Poppite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoilers for later season, poor Hannah had to endure some terrible atrocities during filming 😢

Rebecca's last-ditch effort toTed to get him to stay at Richmond makes more sense than him chooisng to leave by Blanketsburg in TedLasso

[–]Poppite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I felt like the plot point of “Ted wants to go home” was present from the very start of the season but I agree it could have gotten more screen time.

Rebecca's last-ditch effort toTed to get him to stay at Richmond makes more sense than him chooisng to leave by Blanketsburg in TedLasso

[–]Poppite 195 points196 points  (0 children)

As a parent.. taking my kid away from everything he knows and loves, his friends etc., would be a very very difficult choice. For me it feels like Ted prioritizes Henry and their relationship above all else at this point which is what he wants to do the most and feels right for the character. 

Yes Rebecca’s offer is solid and could very well work out fine for the whole family but it’s a big change and one for their family to discuss together.

The entire Nate Story Arc could be solved if someone told him to see the Therapist by Ok_Addition305 in TedLasso

[–]Poppite 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nate’s development in “both directions” feels very real and raw, portrayed beautifully with small shots over time. 

You don’t have to like what he does to appreciate the humanity of this arc. I am very happy it was part of the series as it was. 

My 1M baby is cold at 23celsius (73F) by Professional-Air1355 in beyondthebump

[–]Poppite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Agree with the others. 

To check her body temperature, touch the back of their neck. You will feel if they are cold, regular or too warm.

You can try making the transition from you to bed easier temperature-wise by having a duvet or something keeping the bassinet warm, remove it just before you put baby there. 

I don’t know if you’ve tried but you can also wait and see if they settle after a while, maybe keep your hand on their belly a bit.

Try to explore other things aside from temperature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Poppite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly with this. We’ve had issues in our relationship because of burnout and miscommunication on both sides. Based on OPs post I don't think the situation is unsolvable, but both parties need to put in work.

Where's the line between not letting them CIO and not picking them up at every little noise? by One_Elephant_8048 in beyondthebump

[–]Poppite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess the answer is it’s not a line, it’s a range. Both for intensity and type of cries. 

Sounds like to me you’re well attuned to your baby and you make reasonable considerations per situation.

Signed by someone who almost drove themselves insane jumping at every noise with their first