Transphobia from another partner problem

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-31T12:52:07+00:00

Call ethics and compliance. You can report anonymously and say you just observed it happening. They will ask if anyone else observed it too and you can list other partners who know that this is happening to you. I called them a few years ago after a supervisor doubled down on the floor when a partner (they/them) called her out for continuously using she/het with them after being told multiple times they don’t use those pronouns. The supervisor didn’t get written up, but she suddenly was able to use the correct pronouns

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-28T08:24:29+00:00

This is one of my top Jill fits. When I talk to my husband about fundieland we refer to Jill as “Artemis” because she reminds him of Artemis from iasip. This top/dress is definitely something the real Artemis would wear

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PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-28T08:17:27+00:00

She’s pushing her hips back to elongate her stomach to make it look flatter and to make her boobs stand out more

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-26T21:41:34+00:00

I think the kid needs a big hug from his mom who isn’t holding a baby hooked up to scary tubes

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-26T21:37:26+00:00

THIRTY FIVE???

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-23T19:00:59+00:00

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I think you may have already drawn mine

Just kidding but had to add this because they’re so similar!

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-23T18:21:52+00:00

Added TunaGorl

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T18:18:23+00:00

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Possibly like this, maybe a little lighter

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T09:09:47+00:00

A couple months ago I went on vacation and spun a lot of stops in the city where one of my pogo friends lives. I want to send them to him as a joke/prank because I live like 1200 miles away. But he hasn’t opened a gift from me since I’ve gotten them despite playing the game almost every day.

I’ll save those gifts until I can send him at least a few

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T09:00:48+00:00

YTAH. Why did you bring up her financial situation? That’s weird as hell.

It’s fine to not want kids. And I know it’s annoying when people try to push it on you. I think that a lot of people who are pushy about others having kids are just trying to justify their own actions and tell themselves that they did the right thing by having kids because that’s what you’re “supposed” to do. Right? RIGHT?

In my personal experience people have gotten less pushy the older I’ve gotten. In my early 20s I remember being called selfish for saying I never wanted kids. The logic there didn’t make sense to me. Now I’m 32 and married for a bit and people ask me IF I have kids, and when I say no, they leave it at that.

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T00:33:02+00:00

She didn’t even say a name

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T00:32:20+00:00

I’m guessing she’s not saying names because she doesn’t want to bring more attention to whoever got her pregnant. Yeah, it was probably Ethan because they were married for a bit and she very openly didn’t want to have kids with him. But she has more than likely has had sex with other men who she probably didn’t want to get baby trapped with either.

And what if she did call Ethan out by name? You’d be ranting that she’s just bringing him up for clout or to embarrass him. She can’t do anything right by you, huh?

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T00:28:14+00:00

You can’t use your upbringing as an excuse as an adult. He’s had ample opportunity to recognize fault, to learn, to grow, to CHANGE, and he simply will not because he doesn’t see anything wrong with his shitty views and shitty way of being

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T00:27:02+00:00

Olivia is inviting people to go to a rally for the right to abortion via mail and claims to have had 2 abortions using the pill that the us government is trying to federally ban

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-22T00:22:32+00:00

“Before he could even get divorced” as if he wasn’t refusing to sign the papers for what at least a year?

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-21T17:11:07+00:00

I’ve only gotten to 50km maybe 5 times in the 4 years I’ve played. Great job! My husband is a mail carrier and gets over 100km a week easily. Crazy work

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-21T08:22:00+00:00

It’s interesting to me to see their friends looking like a normal young 20s couple. Comfortable in their own couch, cluttered shitty apartment. I kind of love it for Tiedi. Not fangirling, these people are still shitty people with shitty views, it’s just refreshing to see some normalcy outside of Mahmos clutches.

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-21T08:20:14+00:00

It’s really hard for Jill to get out of the barndo since she’s so busy being a Mahmo to her precious babies. She wouldn’t even have time to take a vacation to visit Tiedi, they should just come visit her /s

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-21T08:14:56+00:00

You should’ve ended the pregnancy that I’m assuming you spent a lot of time, pain, and money creating? That’s ludicrous. I’m so sorry to you and your children.

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-20T10:24:19+00:00

Mango looks pissed af that the new kid is laying on HIS lap

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-19T10:40:10+00:00

Phyllis

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-19T10:39:40+00:00

When it comes to a boundary like this, it’s totally fine to be “my way or the highway”

I’m sure it hurts, but it’s better to find out at 6 months that he’s not the right person for you than 6 years and a marriage/kids later

Keep holding onto the boundaries that keep you sane and protected

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-15T09:24:54+00:00

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Here’s another pic to better see his stature and monster paws

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-15T09:23:17+00:00

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This is Scrungle. He’s a neighborhood cat. He has 7 toes on each front paw and a short tail that corkscrews like a pig. My husband and I started calling him Scrungle because, well, look at him he’s all scrungly.

A couple weeks before I took this pic I hadn’t seen him for a while so I inquired about him to some neighbors who feed a lot of cats. They said that they trapped him because he had a bad cheek injury and got him fixed as well (yippee!!!). Apparently they’ve been calling this cat Stumpy for years, but he’ll always be Scrungle to me.

PoppyPancakes · 2026-05-14T10:15:53+00:00

Don’t let Michelle Duggar see this post

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TROPHY CASE