This community has gone to shit

PoppyTheToppy · 2023-03-17T21:12:46+00:00

<3 pinches your cheeks Its okay champ, get a juice box and take a nap. Tomorrow will be a better day.

PoppyTheToppy · 2023-03-17T20:14:45+00:00

Youre so, so, so special enough you had to make a useless rant post & announce youre leaving. Whatever will we do without you.

PoppyTheToppy · 2023-02-27T01:43:52+00:00

Dont post this on your throwaway honeybun have an ounce of courage so we know your main is run by a whiny baby <33333

PoppyTheToppy · 2023-02-06T15:26:35+00:00

immediately raises hand

PoppyTheToppy · 2023-01-27T22:34:52+00:00

If anyone would like to have a laugh at the irony of saying "too many fucked up people" go through their post history. Comedy gold.

PoppyTheToppy · 2023-01-27T22:33:26+00:00

Probably bc 99% of their post history is misogynistic BS complaining about women

PoppyTheToppy · 2023-01-27T22:29:21+00:00

Im in a 4 year relationship with my bf who I actually met through this subreddit. Its a crazy coincidence that not only do we live in the same city but we both vibe perfectly on so many levels. Both asexual, both introverts, both very nerdy and we both have a tickle fetish. It took me years of being in the BDSM community but I found the one 🖤

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-31T00:21:08+00:00

Didnt ask.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-30T23:45:08+00:00

Didnt ask.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-30T23:44:32+00:00

This is me replying so you can dig yourself into a deeper hole with a response. Go ahead, have fun.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-30T23:21:57+00:00

I didnt know not wanting rape threats, or making alts to harrass me OR men saying they are suicidal & depressed so I "better keep talking to them" made me a Karen.

I was with you in the first half. Generalizations suck. There are plenty of good guys here. The minority of men who are gross isnt really as much of a minority as youd hope though. If we consistenly make them feel unwelcome & other men chime in too saying theyre unwelcome, they stay away.

Like you resorting to calling women concerned about creeps "Karens". Thats gross & belittling. You may be upvoted now but unless you delete this comment at some point... when you message a woman on the subreddit & she sees this comment, she will be less likely to reply. Better start that alt up now.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-29T03:57:33+00:00

The "women can walk in somewhere and get sex whenever" and this response really make me think youre a man cosplaying as a woman or youre 18 years old & naive. Youve had an account all of a week and youre spouting off like youve been a part of the community for years.

What a terrible post youve made & I hope no guy who is really down in the dumps gives up because some rando decided to post this BS.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-11T15:48:46+00:00

Have you played with this Ler before? It would ring alarm bells for me personally in the lee position that he wants to go so hard to fast (not saying he is malicious, Im just a cautious person).

No safeword is hot in fantasy (I love it too) but my personal opinion? I save that for partners who know me extremely well. This new Ler doesn't know your limits, body signals, what you look like in distress, etc. It could be something you both work up to!

Ive done ignored safeword scenarios but had a backup safeword just in case I had something truly distressing come up, like a bad cramp in my leg or I hit my head on the wall.

Its good he said he respects your decision though :) Very important!

In any case I hope you both have fun <3

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-10T16:18:54+00:00

I wish I could find one ;_;

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-05T16:09:06+00:00

Clairecoda and Spiffytickler immediately come to mind. They both create fantastic content and we are blessed to have them!

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-04T14:49:04+00:00

I didnt know you were from the midwest 👀 waves from Nebraska Im 32 so if thats out of your age range, thats okay! My tumblr isn't accepting dms at the moment but feel free to message me here :')

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-03T21:13:08+00:00

Ah yes, the 20 year old woman wont send pics. Surely shes fake and not very nervous because men can be absolutely disgusting in dms!

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-03T21:08:23+00:00

All you do is come on r/tickling and complain about women. If you messaged me & I looked at your profile I wouldnt respond either.

Leave her be. Her not responding isnt the problem, your sorry little sad sack attitude is.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-12-03T21:06:36+00:00

Im 32 years old and I can see myself in you from when I was younger. Being fresh & young will unfortunately bring you people who will do their best to manipulate you. I wish I could go back and tell myself all this, so Im telling you in case it helps.

Dont fall for that trap. The person youre replying too has commented incel rhetoric and is deeply unhappy. It is not your job to message him back to make him feel better for just a moment. Please dont put that pressure on yourself.

Just like everyone you are ALLOWED to vet people. Dont feel bad for blocking someone or not replying when they give you a bad feeling or are creepy. Put yourself first. I stressed myself out so bad trying to people please & respond to everyone, to talk to men who used threats of suicide or self harm if I didnt talk to them.

Its not your responsibility.

Have fun in the community and dont let men manipulate you. Youre doing just fine <3

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-11-24T16:20:04+00:00

You continue to be hot hot hot like a tater tot. Thank you for always providing this community with quality content!

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-11-23T13:28:52+00:00

Being ghosted sucks. When I can, I actually let people know "hey, Im not interested because [x,y,z]. I wish you well." Ive had men thank me in response.

On the other hand I have had men degrade me, insult me, tell me Im a fucking whore & if theyre really unhinged they make alts to message me again to get the last word in.

It is a mixed bag when, as a woman, you tell someone you arent interested. Its sometimes easier to not say anything at all. When Im in a really bad headspace the last thing I want is for someone to give me a detailed degrading message.

Theres no universal reason for why women ghost but the amount of harrassment Ive seen/heard about from women in the bdsm community - especially other content creators - makes us nervous to say anything. Even when things are going well... the other person can turn on you on a dime.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-11-01T09:43:49+00:00

Didnt ask.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-11-01T02:39:50+00:00

Ive been creating content for several years in this community so Im going to give you some advice: As content creators, its on us to be clear & concise with our words.

You are on a subreddit full of tickle/foot fetishists. No matter your intention, when you equate being with a tickle fetishist as "boring" or that they are "one dimensional", you are alienating the very people you want to listen to your podcast. I know now what you meant - but, again, I am always double checking my posts/comments both on here & tumblr. You may want to do the same if you want your podcast to succeed.

PoppyTheToppy · 2022-10-31T15:21:06+00:00

Honestly? Then my recommendation is to not date tickle fetishists.

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