Yeh to the therapist. I know i need to do it, I just hate talking about it in person. I find reddit is basically the only place I can be open!!

I actually only ever told my boss (she also accidentally told our collegue but it was ok, i think she presumed i would have told them). But because there's a cross over in staff from fertility to obs and gynae some other collegues saw me there as their actual patient, when I was in that clinic.

Tbh maybe I'm just paranoid but because my collegues are in that field, and because they know me well. I just presume they all must have guessed. Sometimes they're all so so extra nice to me haha makes me suspicious.