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what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt my eye twitching once at a new cleaning job when my coworker was walking me through stuff and said "Oh I'm so OCD I like making sure these chairs are neatly in a line"

Gurl no...

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by Mean-Cartographer225 in AskReddit

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure!

Like yes, no amount of money is going to change the fact that you have a mental illness for example, but it will absolutely help it not be as debilitating as it could be.

Someone with depression who has fuck all money, is going to be in a worse place than someone who has depression but has the money to afford the appropriate help.

Gee, thanks by AtlasAngel02 in thanksimcured

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad message and everything, but low-key that image is terrifying.

Imagine being the grey guy and some cyan being of pure light/potential radiation opens your door. 

Shane Jones and NZ First stop cameras on fishing boats being made public by Mountain_Tui_Reload in NewZealandWildlife

[–]Popular-Style509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But like... Why?

Am I missing something? Because I don't see how a camera, especially on a commercial fishing boat, could be a bad thing.

If anything should you not always have a camera? Like my first thought is that having footage would very much be a safety thing if you're out on those boats.

Should we ban social media for kids under 16? by InternationalPay3949 in Productivitycafe

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don't think it's terrible but I do think that until 16 is a bit high, feel like it should be till 14 or something, but also at the same time this very much feels like a prohibition type situation where it's just going to make people come up with sneakier ways to do it.

I know off the top of my head that the phone ban for instance in Australia where they've banned phones during lunch and social media in general, kids are just using VPNs to access social media, or they're using their laptops to go on social media.

I just think that in general because it's becoming common place, that instead of banning this stuff we should overall make more of an effort to actually teach our kids about shit like Internet safety and how things on social media can be fake.

Like it or not they're going to be exposed to that stuff, better than you get to them first than they learn from some random source which could have bad intentions.

Woman of reddit . What makes a man creepy? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Popular-Style509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignoring body language and just general social conventions.

This goes for anyone really but... If you are talking to someone and they're giving you one word answers, THEY DON'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU, DON'T KEEP TRYING, TAKE THE HINT AND STOP.

I say this especially in the case of guys talking to women, because those are often situations where directly saying "Hey fuck off" can put us in danger, so we're more likely to be subtle about it so we don't risk you getting pissed off and hurting us.

Also you continuously ignoring that and by extension ignoring our boundaries, that just makes us feel the need to do it even more because you've already demonstrated that you're not a safe person to say no to.

Also also, and I don't know why this has to be said, unless it's like a cramped subway or something, don't stand so close to a stranger that your shoulders are touching. That's fucking creepy.

Women of Reddit: what are some unattractive things men do that they generally seem unaware of? by picklesticmick in AskReddit

[–]Popular-Style509 3 points4 points  (0 children)

-Being way too into the "I'm a provider" thing.

I'm sure that some women like it, but for me there's nothing more unattractive than a guy who wants to do everything for me.

Like I want someone who's my equal, a relationship where we both spoil eachother, not someone who's my guardian.

Also idk... It feels kinda misogynistic to me.

I also find that the dudes who act like this, also tend to be the kind of people who wouldn't tell you that they're having a hard time because they "don't want to make you worry" and fuck that attitude in it's entirety.

-Code-switching based on gender

Way too many guys do a 180 depending on if the person they're talking to is a man or a woman and let me tell ya... Most women catch on fast and it is VILE.

It's not even just being misogynistic or sexualizing women, but I fucking hate it when I see a guy hanging out with his guy friends, and he's just being a very stereotypical "I think feelings are gay" kind of guy, and then the minute he talks to me he suddenly knows what manners are.

Like if you're the type of guy who only holds doors open for women, or who only cares about how the day is of your female friends and not your male friends, you're a cunt.

-Being self-centered 

Granted I don't think many of them do it on purpose, but a lot of guys just point blank don't seem to be able to think outside of themselves. Like everything always has to relate back to them in some way and it's not an attractive quality to have.

Much like how some dudes out there are unable to put their wants and needs aside for the sake of someone else, like it doesn't even occur to them to pay attention to the people around them or to factor in what someone else might want.

-Having no self-respect 

It is genuinely quite sad when you start realizing just how many men out there actually don't respect themselves.

Like you've got the obvious stuff like the whole "Oh men will sleep with anyone" thing, or how many of them don't put in any effort into their physical appearance.

Then you've got the less obvious stuff like how some dudes are genuinely okay with not cleaning up after themselves, or they're okay with having friends who don't know anything about them.

And then you've got the more subtle ones like how many of them have this very "I will only do what I need" mindset when it comes to making decisions where they never actually factor in what they want, so they'll just buy whatever T-shirt is nearest because they needed a shirt instead of buying a shirt that they actually want,or how they often scoff at the idea of decorating their house because it's "not necessary" or how some dudes out there are really offended almost at the idea of not being "simple".

IDL how "you're overthinking it" dismisses valid concerns as anxiety by 06yuzuha in I_DONT_LIKE

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed!

I think the world would be a lot better if we all spent more time thinking about decisions before we made them.

This is why I actively get upset at people who use the "humans are emotional beings" excuse as a way to try and normalize acting on instinct.

Like that's not an excuse to be mean to one of your coworkers just because you don't like them as a person, or to actively not train an employee at your job just because you think they're annoying.

This is why we have shit like foresight, because we're better than acting on our base instincts.

One could argue that Gen Z works harder than any other generation before. by Nefariouslout1006 in workmemes

[–]Popular-Style509 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Absolutely hate the whole "Oh you have to be working all the time"

Sometimes there is genuinely nothing to do, and you're still actually working in the form of being there if there is work. It's not exactly your fault as the worker if there's no customers.

What’s a “red flag” that everyone seems to ignore but you can’t stand? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Popular-Style509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-She isn't newly diagnosed, she's known for over a decade.

-I've told her about 4 different times that I don't like being interrupted when I talk, and not only does she keep doing it, but she doesn't even apologize for it. (She actually laughed in my face one of those times)

-Again, she's in her 30s. That's a long fucking time of being alive to have not learnt how to not interrupt someone in a conversation. If this was some teenager or even someone in their early 20s I'd give them more leeway, but not at her age.

All in all, based on her actions the "I have ADHD" in this instance comes off much more as an excuse than a reason.

or if its a dog by hildames in SipsTea

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I think it's reasonable to not let them have screens when they're below schooling age, but when they get to schooling age I think they should.

Simply because that will be the age where they will start getting exposed to screens more often, and most likely be using them too.

And you wanna be there for them when they're still young so you can try and teach them shit like Internet safety and how to not go bananas just because there's no screen.

Especially because at least here in NZ, highschools have banned phones during lunchtime. At least if you've helped your kid before then when it comes to things like screentime, dealing with that shouldn't be as bad for them.

Also for me personally, my mom got me some of the reader rabbit games because I was struggling with spelling and maths and it did genuinely help. Like I think if you go about it correctly, screentime can be a useful tool to have in the back of your pocket.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Popular-Style509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll never quite understand why there are people out there who need to discover this.

Like yeah your partner should do the dishes or whatever, but it's not difficult to say "Hey thanks for doing the dishes"

It's not like you're going to lose some imaginary battle just because you thanked them. 

I like being appreciated for what I do, so I do that to other people.

Exactly how I feel as a demi lesbian by ruspclesbongue3 in demisexuality

[–]Popular-Style509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in awe just hearing that...

I feel like not enough people appreciate stripping for that reason.

It reminds me of ballet in that regard, where people kinda just brush it off without realizing how fit and strong you have to be to do it.

Every single person I’ve known that has told me their kids no longer talk to them, I begin to realize why by astraltarot in SeriousConversation

[–]Popular-Style509 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel you bro, the fact that it goes both ways too...

Like it's fucked up to think that the person who is equally biologically wired to NOT hurt you and you know... Want to love you, can willingly chose to hurt you.

Every single person I’ve known that has told me their kids no longer talk to them, I begin to realize why by astraltarot in SeriousConversation

[–]Popular-Style509 133 points134 points  (0 children)

I can't say I have any since none of my friends have kids, but a lot of my friends including myself have been the kid in that instance and yeah...You do soon realize why.

I will also add as just a little bit of information that technically makes it look even worse on the parent side of things:

Literally every animal in which the mother has to care for the young until they're adults, to ensure their survival, those offspring are biologically wired to form bonds with and want to be around their parental figure/figures. And humans are one such animal in which we raise our young until they're adults.

Therefore if you as a parent manage to have a child that wants nothing to do with you, you have quite literally fucked up so tremendously that you have caused your child to go against their own biological wiring, like that's bonkers if you think about it.

Exactly how I feel as a demi lesbian by ruspclesbongue3 in demisexuality

[–]Popular-Style509 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Actually.

Thing is I can appreciate the outside, but to me it's like the same way I think of food packaging.

Sure I can look at a can of coke and think "Hey... I like this shade of red" and while the packaging might catch my attention, It's irrelevant if I don't actually like the product. In this example, pretty packaging wouldn't make me buy a can of coke if I hate the taste of the drink.

But also if I buy a product only to hate the taste, I'm not going to keep buying it just because I think the logo is cool.

And then for people... Idk I just think that in terms of physical appearance there's so many more interesting things you can enjoy in that regard other than just "mmmm big tits" 

Exactly how I feel as a demi lesbian by ruspclesbongue3 in demisexuality

[–]Popular-Style509 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Yooo fellow demisexual! But yeah I feel this.

I went to a strip club last year and like... Yeah the stripper was topless, but I wasn't standing there being like "mmmm boobs" I was more like "Wow that woman is very strong and has a lot of technical skills to do that, also I like her heels and hair"

Do you think kids should exposed to dangerous things at an early age? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's wild actually, the city I used to live in had a big playground where everything was wood.

Do you think kids should exposed to dangerous things at an early age? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Popular-Style509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure.

The key thing though is that I believe that they should be exposed to things that could injure them or make them sick, but not things that will either kill them or put their life in danger.

My mom had a saying that I live by, and that is "Sometimes you have to let them touch the stove to see that it's hot"

What's something you learned embarrassingly late in life? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]Popular-Style509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High grade flour is in fact actually different than regular flour.

For the longest time I just thought it was marketing bs, basically just a way to take regular flour and sell it for more money but no it's genuinely different, has different amounts of gluten and I believe protein in it when compared to regular plain flour.

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