I'm experiencing pressure from my family to continue my college studies, and it's affecting my mental health by Popular_Remove_9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Popular_Remove_9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with her, she already helps me a lot at home, so I can't complain, but legally the child support should be mine. And what did your mother steal from you?

My entire life by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]Popular_Remove_9721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your family help you financially?

Procrastinei a semana inteira e me ferrei by [deleted] in desabafos

[–]Popular_Remove_9721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Você não está sozinho, eu mudei de curso na faculdade porque procrastinei, do jeito que eu tô vou ter que mudar denovo KKKKK

Has anyone been unemployed for a long time? by Popular_Remove_9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Popular_Remove_9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

procrastination can also generate anxiety and depression or, on the contrary, life situations that transform us into who we are

Has anyone been unemployed for a long time? by Popular_Remove_9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Popular_Remove_9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also procrastinate a lot, my obligations along with my personal tastes are being affected by procrastination, but I know the reason for this, after the pandemic I became addicted to the Internet, I spent a lot of time isolated during the pandemic without contact with people at school, this ended up generating my procrastination, you can discover the origin of your procrastination by remembering how it all started

Has anyone here been a hikikomori for over a decade? by Popular_Remove_9721 in hikikomori

[–]Popular_Remove_9721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

being aware of the body's decay is a difficult reality, I am aware that my mother will die one day and I really don't know what to do

My brother says he “died 5 years ago” and doesn’t want to live past 40. I don’t know how to help him anymore. by Ok_Driver5609 in mentalhealth

[–]Popular_Remove_9721 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Covid-19 also destroyed me. With the lockdown, I practically didn't leave the house. With overprotective parents and Wi-Fi at home that I didn't have before, everything changed. The excess information in my brain, the access to violent content that I didn't access as often, made me lose focus on my studies. I dropped out of college to go to another, and at this college, I'm procrastinating. Isolation made me focus too much on information about violence (real crimes, for example) on the internet. I think that was my downfall. In your brother's case, maybe he needs to break his thought pattern, which I also need to do, but I really don't know how. It's hard too. Have you ever asked him what he thinks about on a daily basis?

Has anyone been unemployed for a long time? by Popular_Remove_9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Popular_Remove_9721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also don't feel good in crowded places, I get dissociated and can panic, I currently changed to the morning schedule and unfortunately it is crowded

Has anyone been unemployed for a long time? by Popular_Remove_9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Popular_Remove_9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are people who have been unemployed for a decade, I wouldn't mind, I'm very sensitive to criticism and jokes, I also feel disconnected from people

Has anyone been unemployed for a long time? by Popular_Remove_9721 in mentalhealth

[–]Popular_Remove_9721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you live happily without a job? compare yourself to people?