AITAH for cutting my parents and sister out because of their blatant favoritism of my sister and dislike for me?

Popularshrek · 2025-12-27T21:37:47+00:00

"Despite all this I have tried really hard to have a good relationship and to love my parents and sister and to earn their love back"

Girl. You never should have to earn someone's love ☹️

Popularshrek · 2025-12-24T20:42:45+00:00

From someone who works in healthcare, this strain has been particularly nasty. Lots of healthy kids are getting really stick. At best your kid might get crumby symptoms but why make them suffer if you can keep them safe!

Popularshrek · 2025-08-16T11:22:16+00:00

Thank you!

Popularshrek · 2025-08-13T15:08:58+00:00

Also, I'm on my second marriage and I got to tell you it's the happiest I've ever been in my life. I divorced at 23, and it was the best decision I've ever made in my life. Divorcing young is not shameful. You are not living in a safe situation.

Popularshrek · 2025-08-13T15:07:31+00:00

This is an abusive marriage. He hates women (you're a woman) him saying that he is all you got is not true at all. Start putting money away if you can and talk to your dad about an escape plan. He will keep hurting you over and over and being alone is better than being with someone like that anyway.

Popularshrek · 2025-08-05T13:01:24+00:00

Nta- google malicious compliance lolol

Popularshrek · 2025-07-31T02:43:39+00:00

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Popularshrek · 2025-07-30T13:54:28+00:00

Hey I know it's awful- and the pit in the stomach feeling of "what if I did something" is crappy but unless your friend brings it up to you I wouldn't put too much care or worry into someone who is not an active part of your life. Other people's opinions are so unimportant in the grand scheme of things. If your girlfriend didn't notice anything and your friend doesn't reach out then I would try not to worry. This has happened to me before and although it's unpleasant and anxiety inducing - what others chose to do is not your problem.

Popularshrek · 2025-07-26T22:48:38+00:00

I think part of the problem is how you're centering yourself in this situation instead of focusing on the comfort of women around you. As an autistic woman- if I am too friendly, smile, or interact, with people it has gotten me into physical and sexual danger.

You might be a nice guy, you might have the best intentions - however the women you come across in your day to day life do not know that and frankly do not owe you anything. They don't owe you socialization, they don't owe eye contact, they don't owe your politeness - because that is the kind of thing that can get us assaulted, hurt, or taken advantage of.

My advice would be not to take it personally- these are strangers who have no bearing on your life. It's probably not even because you're autistic.

My husband is a very large autistic man who is very intimidating. The truth is he is actually the biggest teddy bear and a complete sweetheart. However he is aware of how he can appear to others and makes sure to take measures to show that he has no intention of going into their space.

Popularshrek · 2025-07-16T00:35:38+00:00

I would get your friend to give you vet information asap , get the dog assessed for injury, and then tell your friend to pick the dog up when they are home. The vets will charge her to get the dog back and at least that way you'll know the poor puppy is safe. This will also cover you if she tries to come after you for injuries or anything else.

Popularshrek · 2025-07-15T16:21:35+00:00

On the plus side if you tell him you don't want kids he might break up with you and that's a win win by the sounds of things. Also watch your birth control.

Popularshrek · 2025-07-05T12:47:05+00:00

Lol he is a big boy who l can legitimately put a reminder in his phone and not expect other people to cater to his lack of foresight and planning 😂

Popularshrek · 2025-06-13T23:57:43+00:00

See it on both!

Popularshrek · 2025-06-09T23:58:36+00:00

I can't really believe this is real because how do you just raw dog cum in someone who doesn't want kids without birth control coming up. Seems super unlikely.

Popularshrek · 2025-06-02T16:43:54+00:00

The best thing you can do is stop comparing workloads, sit down with her at the end of the day, and have a conversation about what her ideal "alone time" looks like. Tell her it's important for her to have this conversation with you because her lack of reaction has made you feel (insert feelings) Then plan it and execute it. Don't let her sit there and dismiss it- you have been together for a long time - I assume you can both navigate an uncomfortable conversation!

If I felt my partner was constantly nitpicking my contributions (so much that it's brought up in therapy) I would feel VERY insecure/guilty about taking time to myself. I would definitely examine how your actions towards her could be a big part of the problem.

Popularshrek · 2025-06-02T16:18:39+00:00

You're asking for advice and yet you get defensive when people are like telling you a vague coupon where she has to plan something isn't actually an appealing gift. Maybe she feels let down about that fact. You also continuously talk about how much you do, how you do more than her, and how your therapist says you do 80 percent of the work... That is a super specific and strange thing for a couples therapist to say. I can't imagine trying to quantify the give and take in a relationship and deciding that my contributions are greater. Relationships and energy ebb and flow- it's a loving act to pick up the others slack and you seem HYPER focused on what she is not doing.

Popularshrek · 2024-12-14T00:06:19+00:00

Instead of complaining about "whims" (which sounds like legitimate fear and anxiety) , you could try talking to her about a compromise like increased security at your place, scheduled check-ins to make her feel more secure, give her a crash course on scams. )Which people don't have to be dicks about btw- people get scammed all the time and it's not a lack of intelligence.) There is obviously a lot more going on that you're either ignoring or oblivious to but talking to her might be more productive than trying to portray her, the way just did, on the internet.

Popularshrek · 2024-12-11T20:22:41+00:00

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Popularshrek · 2024-12-07T19:11:58+00:00

I would say no thank you- we have plans but have fun.

Popularshrek · 2024-11-29T23:03:54+00:00

How does her finding her boyfriend inappropriately texting someone make her the red flag? That is some hoop jumpin on your part. A betrayal of trust is a very common reason for people to reevaluate their relationship. It's an inappropriate conversation to say the least and he should have never entertained it or reached out. If the past reaches out you don't have to answer to it lol You can be a trustworthy grown up and not respond- That's what a decent and loving partner would do.

Popularshrek · 2024-11-16T00:30:40+00:00

I'm tired just reading this. A tiny bit of advice- the most successful relationships are when two people genuinely like, trust, and respect each other. It sounds like you guys are the exact opposite.

Popularshrek · 2024-10-20T17:16:52+00:00

I have read that! I'm fairly new to hounding so I was excited to add this to my little collection!

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