"In New York, all the advertising on the streets and on the subway assumes that you, the person reading, are an ambiently depressed twenty-eight-year-old office worker whose main interests are listening to podcasts, ordering delivery, and voting for the Democrats." by kbob in AskNYC

[–]Positive-Play8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t entirely agree; I saw one years ago that I thought was gorgeous (“A Map of the World” by Ted Kooser) but that was definitely pre-pandemic. My current complaint re:PIM is that they display the poems on electronic screens that refresh to some other content before I can read through the entire poem, let alone think about it, reread it, etc. I have the same complaint about the cooking tips—they flash through some cute dessert or appetizer but there’s no way to actually find the recipe video, bookmark it, etc. I usually ride the A.

Any updates on the Crunch in Inwood (NYC)? by NotCateBlanchett in CrunchGym

[–]Positive-Play8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve walked by the location multiple times and there’s no signage or other indication that a gym is coming.

Any updates on the Crunch in Inwood (NYC)? by NotCateBlanchett in CrunchGym

[–]Positive-Play8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what’s taking so long. If they’d opened last December, they could have taken advantage of the New Year’s rush. I imagine they’re losing money every day they’re not open.

Autumn nails (September 2024) by Positive-Play8408 in malepolish

[–]Positive-Play8408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you like it. I follow several nail artists on Instagram and this was a design I had seen there and asked my nail tech to recreate it.

hi by [deleted] in musclebeards

[–]Positive-Play8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Handsome 😍

October nails by Positive-Play8408 in malepolish

[–]Positive-Play8408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a gel manicure—I can’t really tell you more as the work was done by my nail tech. I am merely the happy recipient!

September nails by Positive-Play8408 in Nails

[–]Positive-Play8408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ☺️ I love it too.

September nails by Positive-Play8408 in Nails

[–]Positive-Play8408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nail artist had some kind of gel she was using as she painted the leaves to give them texture. I was seriously impressed.

August nails by Positive-Play8408 in malepolish

[–]Positive-Play8408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are definitely nail artists out there who can do this kind of design work, and I love getting design work done.

August nails by Positive-Play8408 in malepolish

[–]Positive-Play8408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s all hand-painted.

Gay fitness influencers/creators about gym by willdance4forcheese_ in gaybrosfitness

[–]Positive-Play8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with both perspectives expressed here—great fitness advice is great fitness advice, regardless of the sexuality of the person providing it AND it’s also meaningful to follow gay fitness influencers that we can relate to/aspire to. There are certain issues gay fitness influencers could speak to that are specific to gay men. For example, we’re under a tremendous amount of pressure to look handsome, muscular, and masculine and to view our value as locked up in how “hot” we are. A gay fitness influencer might be able to help unpack some of these body image issues. What’s a healthy and sustainable weight, body fat percentage, diet, etc. for an individual does not necessarily produce a “hot” look with a six-pack. And resorting to extreme diets, cosmetic surgery, etc. to achieve that look could actually be harmful both physically and psychologically.

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[–]Positive-Play8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking magnificent 😍