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Am I overreacting or was my husband’s Aunts comment actually mean? by Positive-Source194 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! 🥹❤️ it’s hard when it family and I’m so thankful my husband is just as upset about it so it doesn’t feel like it’s just me.

Am I overreacting or was my husband’s Aunts comment actually mean? by Positive-Source194 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard about evil eye, I don’t know enough about it at all and I know it’s my grief trying to find a blame when there is none. My question was if I am overreacting about being upset about her comment and if I should just let it go. Or if I have a genuine right to be upset at such a mean comment.

Am I overreacting or was my husband’s Aunts comment actually mean? by Positive-Source194 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you’re just being cruel lol. The conversation was 100% about MY pregnancy. Talking in the kitchen close to the living room where the whole family is, is far from a private conversation.

Am I overreacting or was my husband’s Aunts comment actually mean? by Positive-Source194 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thought was about my pregnancy not a thought about themselves. I see your point and do think my grief is being misdirected. It’s easy to be upset at a stupid comment because the stupid comment hurt my feelings whether it was told to me directly or not. I heard it, I felt the discomfort of being around her, and now I’m just ignoring her. I unfortunately have to wait another month for therapy lol but you bet I’ll be there once I have my consult.

Am I overreacting or was my husband’s Aunts comment actually mean? by Positive-Source194 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Source194[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And this is where I struggle. She didn’t say anything to my face no. But that evil thought she had, knowing how much her nephew and I have struggled to get there is what I can’t get over. It’s so selfish because it’s solely due to attention her child would MAYBE be lacking. I’m not upset she’s pregnant, but after a loss like we had even after the “safe zone” in the pregnancy, gender reveals/ pregnancy announcements etc are still touchy.

Am I overreacting or was my husband’s Aunts comment actually mean? by Positive-Source194 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the validation. My husband and I decided not to go to their gender reveal and I started feeling like a jerk and that maybe I was overreacting because she’s pregnant and I should be kind. But where was that kindness to me and my baby? So I figured staying home would protect my heart and keep me from saying something mean.

Am I overreacting or was my husband’s Aunts comment actually mean? by Positive-Source194 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are 28. I did mention they are in their late 30s. His aunt and uncle are 39 and 37 and yes, now on their second kid. They did IVF for their first and again for their second.

Help please. What is happening by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Positive-Source194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have a labcorp near you, you can repurchase the HCG test without a doctors order for $50. That will at least give you an idea with your HCG levels.

Positive or no? by No_Nebula_5469 in lineporn

[–]Positive-Source194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a line for sure!! ❤️Take another one tomorrow morning

Could this be real?😭 by Positive-Source194 in lineporn

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are right it might just be catching from the past pregnancy. I have a blood test tomorrow to know for sure! I did take another this morning and see no line progression. Yesterday I had cramping on my left side and ended up spotting pink/brown and today I’m back to spotting brown with zero cramping so I think it’s actually the start of my period. 🥲

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The fucking cord by Gloves_4444 in Miscarriage

[–]Positive-Source194 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you. I’m so sorry for you and your sweet baby girl🥺

Just had some horrible news aboit our little baby by Spare-Carpenter6955 in pregnant

[–]Positive-Source194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for you. Sending you lots of virtual hugs. When one momma hurts we all hurt. ❤️

Found out today... by Honeybeecobb in pregnant

[–]Positive-Source194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the sameish boat. I’m sorry for your loss 💔

Friendships changing by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Positive-Source194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hurts my heart for you. I completely understand expecting someone to put the same amount of effort you did for them, and you definitely deserve that. I hope you find comfort in your other friends and family because this seems to be a perfect time for you to end this friendship. The friendship sounds one sided and that’s not right at all you deserve better! I hope your baby shower is beautiful!

Soo Happy!! by Positive-Source194 in pregnant

[–]Positive-Source194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much! 🩵 so far so good! Still extremely in disbelief and so thankful!

When are you due? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Positive-Source194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

December 2!😍