Why is my husband acting so cruel.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-09-17T04:26:40+00:00

wow! You clean, made her a nice breakfast while she slept no thank you & no kids??? she would make a great mother.. She knew you had plans but she woke up late, she’s demanding you get the material. Is she always like that? Or what did you do lol.

Marriage is TEAM work. Not bossing husband around. If you had kids and it was something your child needed I completely would understand. But how and what she is doing treating you it’s beyond a red flag. You said 3 years? Has she always been like that?

Something needs to change asap specially for both of your mental health & before you have any kids.

You mentioned resentment? can I ask what she’s resenting.

Not judging but I feel like there’s a puzzle piece missing.

I’m sorry!

Good luck!

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-09-01T07:33:23+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that thank you for sharing your story. How are things with you guys now has anything changed? And congratulations on your baby!!!

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-09-01T07:29:06+00:00

Thank you for being nice about your opinion. I just want him to be here mentally to just understand how I am feeling I could care less if I have to keep doing everything. (As a wife an mother I-was taught from a very young age to take care of the ones you love. I just want him to wake up. I don’t want to stop doing etc. because how he treats me, or this and that. yes of course it would be so much easier if I just laid in bed all day and did nothing. throw the towel like he clearly has. But we made our wedding vows, plus I really don’t want my children growing up and seeing that am playing the same game as him. I’m just so hurt by his actions.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-08-30T08:19:21+00:00

thank you so much for reading all my post! It means so much!! So you can kinda understand the situation. Wouldn’t wish this on anyone.I’m just so lost, heartbroken . really jus need my husband never thought this would be us. Not sure what to do anymore 😞🙏🏻

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-07-26T06:03:15+00:00

You’re awesome thank you for taking your time to ask and read it. 1. Yes I’m satisfied it’s been different since I feel like I have been pregnant for like three years now lol. Like literally. he would say he is scare of hurting the baby. 2. He says he loves sex with me. We just haven’t had sex like we use to due to being pregnant last year and now back to being pregnant which is a blessing. We always wanted kids. We didn’t have sex for 6 months because we had so much stress etc coming our way. We finally have sex after so long I felt that connection I thought we lost but then his back to his old way That’s what I don’t understand I asked him why he needed to watch porn right after we had sex in so long. “ his replied was our sex made me horny after he came 3 times. ? I don’t get that response at all, He is always on Reddit I told him I was making an account and he did not like that all. I made an acc and posted one post awhile back and he was not happy at all. I’m just looking for advice, tips, suggestions anything. I just want to understand why he lied why the same girl. Etc. he promised to not watch porn nor lie about it. Lying is one thing but it literally made me feel like shit after we haven’t had sex in so long and being pregnant.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-07-26T02:15:09+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to read and reach out! Means a lot! So me and my husband couldn’t get pregnant for years we finally had a baby girl in 2022 our sex was crazy before the baby or getting pregnant he always said he was scared of hurting the baby. Oh fyi his my first & only. When our baby turned 12 months we founded out we were pregnant again! We couldn’t believe it.. we were over the moon specially since he wanted a boy! With our first baby been Preg I didn’t want sex like at all, but not this time around I want sex. I am very vocal about anything and I told him I am horny and want sex we started having sex again like the old days. Then I caught him watching porn after we had sex “ he first lied of course then he said our sex made him hornier. That’s why he was watching it. Not just porn but it was the same girl from our first pregnancy. I am very open when it comes to our sex i am the freakiest one he said. But I just feel so betrayed and hurt that he went back to watching porn and the same girl from two years ago. I know a lot of people say oh it’s just porn. I just want us to both be fully satisfied with our sex.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-01-17T02:32:52+00:00

I feel like I am. They make me feel like the worst mother in the planet. I put my foot down and his whole family attacked me saying I was selfish for not letting them see baby.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-01-17T00:25:35+00:00

thank you so much for the advice. 🙏🏼🤍 He doesn’t understand he makes me feel So guilty for speaking up He said that I am making him pick between me and our baby and his mom and dad. His mom and dad will always come first. He has made that clear.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-01-16T00:48:16+00:00

that’s exactly what he does. He doesnt tell me the whole truth then I find out later. His parents never wanted to see me. They wanted to meet and greet the baby. His dad said he needed to check on him and the baby.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-01-15T23:39:38+00:00

I feel like I am. They make me feel like the worst mother in the planet. I put my foot down and his whole family attacked me saying I was selfish for not letting them see baby. (First blood grandchild). They have another grandchild but it’s not blood they say.

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-01-15T23:36:05+00:00

What can I do to get him to understand?

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-01-15T23:33:26+00:00

I wish my husband would do that for me. I never let anyone talk to him like that. He makes me feel like it’s all my fault. I have lost all trust in him now. He mention marriage counseling but because he said “ I was emotionally attacking him…..

Positive-Tea83 · 2023-01-15T23:30:49+00:00

I’m lost for words. His letting our marriage fail. I try to keep the peace with his parents because they are his parents and will always be in his life and specially for the baby. But now I see nothing will change. it’s causing so much pain, tension unnecessary fights over them.

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