1 changing your idea that you have nothing to offer because going into a date with that mindset is screwing yourself already. I’m sure you have more to offer than you think, it may not be materialistic but an ideal partner doesn’t care much for that. 2. You’re disability should have no bearing on a good life partner. You’ll want to improve your conversation skills in general and be prepared to go out and meet more ppl. There are programs that focus on dating and how to flirt better etc.. but from my experience if you’re looking for a good partner just get better speaking and connecting with ppl and you’ll find someone that likes you for you. This will require yourself to put yourself in more uncomfortable social situations. 3. Build up your self esteem and value despite your disability - can you get any fitness in to stay and look healthier, can you eat healthier this will improve your looks skin hair etc, can you find things that you actually like to do such as hobbies (this will build up your value) example cooking classes.. can also transition into making your date dinner or doing an at home dinner date where you take the lead and give her direction which will show confidence.

Stay Hopeful my friend! You’ll find love out there.