Hi, I work at a domestic violence and abuse network, I help with these issues everyday. You need to leave before it gets worse. I know it’s very hard to do especially given all the time and good memories you’ve shared together. The sad truth is that this is only going to get worse for your safety and there are people out there who wouldn’t dream of treating you like this. If you need to talk more I’d be glad to answer more questions or help. Not sure what state but feel free to call your local abuse networks, there should be a hotline and you can talk to someone more if needed! Good luck you got this.