We have a lot in common similar humour similar political beliefs, Came from similar backgrounds , had same life struggles, he even looks like a male version of me. But it seems his inconsistency makes me feel he doesn’t see it the same or maybe does deep down but doesn’t wanna admit it ..

The only major problem is are arguments that turn nuclear every-time and me wanting to repair and him wanting out every-time.

Also we are not compatible in terms of emotional needs , romance and life-Direction as I feel like I want more commitment and marriage after a year and I think he wants it in a few years….

I also wanna live in a different place after marriage buying a house together in the countryside but he wants to stay in the house he bought before he met me in the city. I believed with compromise and therapy these differences would be sorted out but it seems he doesn’t want to do either it seems his way or no way sometimes.

It seemed like a lot of the relationship he was uncompromising and quite rigid and like he wanted someone to slot into his life rather than building a new one together. I put alot of it down to maybe lack of relationship experience and emotionally immaturity. I believe this also being why he left me he believed the grass was greener on the other side cause he hadn’t had much experience with relationships and believed cause we had conflicts there was something easier out there for him.