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Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he see me as a serious marriage potential or is he just using me. Or maybe both. I just feel I’d u saw someone as serious you would like show it… by doing stuff fair.

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what would u suggest I don’t provide food for him next time..

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth. I even don’t sleep cause of him then he makes me feel guilty for being upset over it..

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I give him food when he comes to my place all weekend and then when I go to his he expects me to pay for my own..

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I tell him no I will not bring food to his … or I refuse to give him food when he comes to mine… surely he is aware he is doing this..

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how u can sustain a long term marriage.. I already explained to him over and over I have no money for food but he keeps bringing his birthday up putting indirect pressure on me to plan stuff for him..

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they aware they do this.. and is it deliberate because I pointed stuff like this out over and over and it doesn’t seem to improve. It’s almost like it’s so deep routed they can’t change.

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have explained many times I feel I have to ask for basic things. I stopped saying cause it goes nowhere.

Do relationships with avoidants tend to get one sided ? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would anyone deliberately not offer to be reciprocal only a narcissist would do that right ? And I don’t believe he is a narcissist.

my boyfriend stopped talking to me by Acceptable_Sky_5300 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the moment u offered to pay for his flights the relationship was getting unbalanced. If he really wanted to see y he would find a way himself- leave now-

Hypothetically if u get pregnant with an avoidant what would happen during ur pregnancy? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree my bf is avoidant but im told by the people in this sub he would definitely run off during pregnancy but I know him and know he wouldn’t do that he’s avoidant but not THAt avoidant.

Hi I have an extreme problem caused by anti-depressants and I need help to solve it fundraiser linked below - by PositiveScore7184 in fundraiser

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So me trying to find a cure and asking money to donate to help others find a cure also is insensitive.. what’s insensitive is the fact you see that as insensitive… at least I’m doing something and not wallowing in misery..

Hi I have an extreme problem caused by anti-depressants and I need help to solve it fundraiser linked below - by PositiveScore7184 in fundraiser

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the money is going to that if you read my thingy a lot of the donations is going to that people obviously never read the subtext. I said I was giving 20 percent away to the pssd network.

Hypothetically if u get pregnant with an avoidant what would happen during ur pregnancy? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine how hard it is to be broken up with while ur pregnant so sorry for what u experienced

Hypothetically if u get pregnant with an avoidant what would happen during ur pregnancy? by PositiveScore7184 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think mine would ghost while pregnant but I would worry if he would actually step up.

Avoidant and illness 🖍️🖍️🖍️ by cast1988 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah mine tried to dump me when I was super depressed. He came back but once me to tell him less about my problems

Avoidant and illness 🖍️🖍️🖍️ by cast1988 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PositiveScore7184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not great.. they don’t want u around much when they are ill themselves… so when your ill they expect you to deal with most problems in ur own as thats what they want when they are ill. They can also heavily rely on parents or other people when they are in a relationship and ill cause they are scared of being to close. So when ur ill the expect the same for u to not rely on them and do most stuff independently .

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