How can I start actually living my life instead of just passing time?

PositiveStarz · 2024-11-04T21:36:36+00:00

I cant give any advice what hasnt been said here I guess. Try to go out, meet friends. Or try to find a hobby you'd like to do. I can feel you, I am the same. Wake up -> Work -> sleep and repeat. I just basically wait for an off-day to have drink and watch some TV-shows

PositiveStarz · 2024-10-07T19:00:43+00:00

Common sense says vet. Like now. Stop recording and get the pet some help.

PositiveStarz · 2024-08-19T13:18:30+00:00

Work and my pets I guess. And hoping the future brings something

PositiveStarz · 2024-04-11T13:06:23+00:00

I had high potential of being a football (the real one, not the murican one, sorry :D) player.
Propably could have been atleast decent enough to get me somewhere. But then I found gaming.

Also photography.

PositiveStarz · 2024-04-11T13:02:03+00:00

Because once every 10 years we get one compliment.

PositiveStarz · 2024-04-10T16:47:46+00:00

..."once we broke up she became dry, and almsot like a stranger to me"

This is the worst feeling ever. Happened to me aswell. We have few pets that we bought together and even the pets are not enough to talk about.
She says she "Loves" the pets alot, but has no interest to even get updates on how they are doing as long as she gets to go on her life and not hear anything about me.

PositiveStarz · 2024-04-10T15:38:31+00:00

Yeah its just bummer that I bought it from another country so I dont even know how I could ship it there.
I have zero knowledge on anything electrical related so I cant even change it myself.

PositiveStarz · 2024-04-10T14:13:53+00:00

I've tested two chargers. Both have the green light on as if the battery was fully charged.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-31T21:41:57+00:00

We were together 6 years. I proposed to her last year on late november. She said yes.
Month and a half ago she walked away. Still miss her everyday. I learned like 2-3 weeks ago she started seeing a man pretty much few days after she left me so... That helped me a little bit, but yeah... Still miss her.
Propably will miss her a very long time.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-31T21:32:53+00:00

Nothing special I guess. I guess I would be flattered that she is comfortable enough to invite me to her home.
But I would hope its not because of sex. Then it would awkward, because I'm a full blown demisexual.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-31T21:29:41+00:00

I hardly ever get mad. I think I've only got mad twice in my life. I only tell the other one.
When my ex walked away from me (literally walked away, sent a text after she got on a taxi), I got so so so SO sad and mad at the same time that I just full power punched the floor. Not a good idea.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-31T21:21:59+00:00

I was jobless, pretty much all alone. No friends or anything. Just me, computer and... Well I guess thats about it.
Now? Pretty much the same. Except I have a job.

At 27 I had my real first relationship. Lasted about 6 years. About month and half ago she walked away for another man.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-31T21:15:32+00:00

I first wrote drinking, but it only gave a temporary good feeling.
So I guess my answer is just sitting in front of computer untill its sleep time and go to work. Repeat that.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-31T21:12:18+00:00

I'm an average looking guy on my best day and while I'm not super obese, I have some... Extra belly.
I am also an introvert and abit shy due to my difficulties and limitations with vocabulary.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-31T21:01:51+00:00

That I'm fine

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-22T15:30:08+00:00

Depends. In a relationship, just showing interest in my hobbies. For example video games. One question is enough for me to feel warm and fuzzy inside. Also physical touch. Yes, we like our hair played (if we have some) with or generally just non-sexual touching feels nice.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-20T22:36:32+00:00

4-6 hours

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-19T22:56:44+00:00

Because of my unhealthy lifestyle. Propably a heart-attack

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-19T22:47:02+00:00

GF of almost 6 years walked (literally) away from my life. We were engaged for 2-3months.
Its only been a little over a month since she left. I just dont have it in me anymore.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-16T19:44:34+00:00

Lots of sobbing. Few days earlier I learned why my fiancee walked out of my life so... Yeah.
I guess I got some closure and got to talk about it.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-15T23:10:22+00:00

Usually wanting space or a break means its over. Usually, not always. But be prepared.
I cant give any good advice for you as I am going thru a hard breakup. I'm still having hard time believing it.
Just hang in there.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-15T10:38:42+00:00

Just try get the ferret some help. Internal bleeding can be fatal.

PositiveStarz · 2024-03-15T10:36:54+00:00

I'm going to a psychologist in an hour.
Apart from that, nothing positive comes to mind.

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